05/07/2026
My deepest fear...
My deepest fear isn't the hospital stays.
It isn't the surgeries.
It isn't the therapies or the appointments.
My deepest fear is leaving this earth before my son is ready.
As parents, we all worry about our children, but when your child has Down syndrome or additional support needs, that worry often runs deeper. It isn't because they can't live incredible, meaningful lives. They absolutely can. It's because we spend every day wondering:
Who will understand him the way I do?
Who will fight for him when I'm no longer here?
Who will make sure he's included, respected, safe, and truly loved?
People often tell us not to worry about tomorrow, but planning for tomorrow is part of loving our children. We advocate so fiercely because we know the world isn't always built with them in mind.
I don't want people to see my son through his diagnosis. I want them to see his laughter, his determination, his cheeky personality, his kindness, and everything that makes him uniquely him.
So while I hope for a long life, I also hope for something even bigger—a world where children and adults with Down syndrome don't just survive without us... they thrive. A world where they are valued, included, protected, and given every opportunity to live the life they deserve.
Until then, I'll keep teaching. I'll keep advocating. I'll keep building Milo's Nest. Because every conversation, every product, every act of inclusion helps create a world that I hope will still wrap its arms around my son when one day I no longer can.
If you're a parent of a child with a disability, you probably understand this fear without a single word needing to be spoken.
❤️ Here's to building a kinder world—not just for our children while we're here, but for the years they'll continue without us.