04/03/2026
Today I want to talk about grief.
Not the neat, quiet version people are comfortable with, but the real and messy one. The one that twists and turns and refuses to move in a straight line.
Yesterday my day started one way... I found out I had completed and passed my university degree that I had worked incredibly hard for.
And then, within hours, I had to very unexpectedly say goodbye to my 11 year old Fur baby (our beautiful dog).
The same day held one of the proudest moments of my life and one of the most heart breaking. That is the thing about grief. It does not wait for a convenient time, it does not care if the day was meant to be joyful, it arrives when it arrives.
Grief is strange like that. One moment you might be ok, and the next you turn a corner in your house and see their favourite spot, hear a song, smell a familiar smell, and suddenly a memory hits you like a wave crashing into shore.
Grief isn't linear, it rises and it falls. It sneaks up on you. It softens, and then it stings again. And grief does not only belong to the loss of a human life.
🍃We grieve animals who were family.
🍃We grieve relationships and friendships that ended.
🍃We grieve the version of life we thought we would have.
🍃We grieve lost health, lost abilities, lost opportunities.
🍃We grieve people who are still alive but no longer part of our lives.
Grief is the echo of something that once meant everything.
There is no correct way to carry it. No timeline, no rulebook. Some days are heavy, some are quiet, and some days you can laugh and cry in the same breath.
If you are walking through grief right now in any form, please know this:
🍃You do not need to explain it.
🍃You do not need to minimise it.
🍃You do not need to apologise for it.
🍃Your grief is valid in our space in whatever stage and form it is. You are allowed to feel exactly what you feel.
Today I am both proud and broken at the same time. and maybe that is part of being human, learning that joy and grief can exist in the same breath.
If you are carrying grief today, you are not alone.
Our tribe is here 💚
'Karma'
24.4.2015 ~ 03.03.2026 🐕🪽