14/10/2026
Tattoo Design Comp: win a free tat!
This one’s for ones who think their job is to fix all. Happiness & health and their own business comes last - maybe stop.
Maybe we lose our spark because we forget the boats are meant to follow the light. Not the other way around.
How many of us do this? Boundaries are crossed, moral compasses are on the p**s and boats stop showing up. So we start playing the roll of ditsy little tug boat full sending it out into the sea to a rescue mission time & time again (some of us with kids bouncing in the passenger seat) Bumpy & shakey rides & because we just keep doing it over & over again without complaining we keep getting the work. Bringing the sailors home 🙄
No maintenance, never breaks down.
What a good little boat, runs off nothing.
What happens if we try no tug boating 🛶 stop being the first to call that in-law for your kids to talk. See if they call your kids.
You might be surprised which boats show up and which run up the rocks.
Stop following the dangled carrots instead of your own dreams. How many times has it turned into a distraction & you doing more for free & no progress ever being made then if you stayed on track with your kids & your business. Listening to & covering up on lies to keep the peace. Nope, not on this shore line. Kick the whole show into the water hornets nest and all. All will see what floats to the surface. Not your job to help them climb out.
Insert here. Stop doing what ever tug boat s**t you do.
You are not Mr Minutes with a degree in fixing the fu**ed moral compass. Not the rescue boat to pull them out & steer them the right way. Infact you are probably making them lazier swimmers by always being on the job.
You are the light house 🥰 for yourself & if you are a mum you are the calm for the kids & the stability for them.
Rescue missions are no place for children so give yourself permission to sit this one out before you hand down the curse & your kids start looking for a life vest every time a boundary gets crossed & they see a boat getting close to the rocks.
Hard little habit to break.
So, I want to get a light house tattoo.
I want you to help design & and get it with me if you want. Something small and symbolic of being the strength, the stability & the light for you and your kids.
The Light House
You don’t have to find it, you are it ✌🏼😜
You are suppose to be the main character in your own story.
So, should we have a design competition?
I’ll pay for the winners tattoo and get the same one 🥰
1. Design your tattoo & add it to the comments
2. Tag your nearest tattoo place or if you aren’t a tat gal we can do that later ✌🏼🍹 this can be your first. Just tag a mate instead who deserves this!