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10/05/2026

I spent so much time thinking about every detail of this ensuite, imagining slow mornings, long baths and actually taking my time getting ready. And yet, I probably spend less time in here than I ever imagined.⁠
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Life with two little boys means there’s almost always someone calling my name, somewhere to be, or something that needs me. Somehow, the extra few minutes for yourself are always the easiest ones to give up.⁠
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Lately I’ve been trying to change that. To remember that enjoying the spaces I worked so hard to create isn’t selfish, and romanticizing your life doesn’t require hours of free time.⁠
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Sometimes it’s just lighting the candle anyway. Running the bath. Taking your time with your skincare. Closing the door for a few extra minutes and letting yourself stay.⁠
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A little reminder for myself, and maybe for you too, to take the extra few minutes 🤍

09/30/2026

I met you, and three months later, somehow, all of my dreams started coming true.⁠
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We fell in love in the middle of Covid, when the world was closed. We never really got the beginning most couples get. The endless dinner dates. The trips. Staying out too late. Waking up and deciding the day belonged only to us.⁠
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Instead, we went almost straight from falling in love to building a life.⁠
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And what a life we built.⁠
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Sometimes I wonder what it would have been like to have had more time to just be us before becoming Mom and Dad. Because right now, we are tired. We are raising two little boys, building our careers, building a home, building a future, and some days it feels like we give everything we have to everyone else and save whatever is left for each other.⁠
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But then I look at you with our boys.⁠
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I watch the way you love them. The way we care for each other without even thinking about it. The coffee, the check ins, the tiny gestures, the way we tag each other in when one of us has nothing left. And I realize that maybe this is romance too.⁠
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Our love just grew up quickly.⁠
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It became a home. It became two little boys. It became bedtime routines and packed days and dreams we are still chasing side by side.⁠
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And maybe we didn’t get enough of the beginning, but we have so much ahead of us.⁠
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One day, the kids will need us a little less. We’ll sleep more. We’ll go for long dinners and stay out too late. We’ll travel to all the places we’ve talked about seeing together. We’ll get to discover parts of each other that life has been too full to find yet.⁠
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And until then, when I wonder where our romance went, I only have to look around.⁠
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A whole family grew from our love.⁠
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And there is no one in this world I would rather have built it with ❤️

I’ve lived so many different lives already, and I think one of the best things I’ve learned is that you’re allowed to ou...
09/25/2026

I’ve lived so many different lives already, and I think one of the best things I’ve learned is that you’re allowed to outgrow a life you once loved.⁠
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I don’t regret any version of myself. The girl who opened a clothing store, the girl who threw parties and lived for nightlife, the girl who found fitness and somehow turned that into a community of women wanting to feel stronger and more confident, the girl who found her way into interiors, and now the woman raising two little boys while building a business and a home that feel more like me than anything ever has.⁠
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At every stage, I genuinely thought, this is who I am.⁠
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And it was.⁠
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Until it wasn’t.⁠
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I think we put so much pressure on ourselves to figure out who we are, as though we’re supposed to arrive at one version and stay there forever. But I’ve realized I don’t really want to.⁠
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There was a time when I couldn’t imagine wanting anything more than the life I had. But I hadn’t experienced motherhood yet. I hadn’t weathered a pandemic. I hadn’t experienced what it felt like to have a room full of women show up because something I created made them want to change their lives, feel stronger in their bodies and, more importantly, more confident in themselves.⁠
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Fitness by Jacflash was never really about fitness for me. Looking back, I think it was about showing women what could happen when they started believing in themselves.⁠
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And maybe that’s why moving on from it never meant leaving it behind.⁠
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Because every version of me gave something to the next one.⁠
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I think that’s the part I love most about getting older. Reinvention doesn’t mean abandoning who you were. You get to take her with you. Her confidence, her mistakes, her stories, her ridiculous decisions, her lessons. All of it.⁠
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And the Jaclyn I am today?⁠
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I love her. But I also know she isn’t the final version.⁠
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I have no idea who I’ll be ten years from now, what I’ll be creating, what I’ll care about or what life will look like.⁠
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And for the first time, I don’t need to know.⁠
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I just hope I never become too afraid to change my mind, close a chapter and fall completely in love with whatever comes next 🤍

Our foyer tile is officially in, and this one feels especially emotional for me.⁠⁠This is the exact view I look down on ...
09/23/2026

Our foyer tile is officially in, and this one feels especially emotional for me.⁠
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This is the exact view I look down on every Christmas morning. It’s where I see my boys playing under the tree, where we welcome the people we love, and where I know so many years of our family’s memories will be made.⁠
So this floor was never going to be just a floor to me.⁠
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Our home was built in 1917, and more than a century of people have walked through this entrance before us. Throughout this renovation, I’ve felt so strongly about preserving that history rather than erasing it in the name of making everything new.⁠
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We kept the original wood wainscotting and trim, along with the beautiful original Arts & Crafts leaded glass surrounding the front door. Seeing all of it now against the new floor makes me appreciate these details even more.⁠
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The tile itself is especially meaningful because we designed it through SPACES BY JACFLASH — International Interior Consulting Studio and had it custom made and imported specifically for this home. I thought about every detail, knowing this floor would become the backdrop to our family’s life for years to come.⁠
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Swipe to see where we started. So much of what you see here has already been here for generations. Now we get to add our own little layer to its story. And years from now, I know I won’t look at this floor and think about the tile I designed. I’ll remember little feet running across it on Christmas morning 🤍⁠
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P.S. This is one of many custom natural stone tile designs we’ve created and imported through SPACES BY JACFLASH — International Interior Consulting Studio. If you’d like to see this one or inquire about others from our collection, send me a message!

09/18/2026

I think I knew what I loved long before I ever knew I wanted to be a designer.

My grandmother owned an antique store when I was growing up, and her house felt like this little world of its own. I remember her garden, the guest room filled with antique dolls, the hat rack at the front door with her collection of old canes, even the chamber pot lids she had hanging on the walls of her powder room.

There were antique toys and wooden blocks that I played with as a little girl that I’ve now passed down to my own boys.

Going to her house always felt like an adventure. There was always something to look at, touch, ask about or wonder where it had come from. I didn’t know it then, but I think that was probably the beginning of my love for interiors.

As I got older and eventually became a designer, I became so much more exposed to what was new. New trends, new materials, new colours, the things suddenly showing up everywhere. And of course I’ve fallen for them too.

But I started noticing something.

The things I chose because they were having a moment were often the things I tired of first. Meanwhile, the things I had been drawn to my entire life never really went away.

Antiques. Old houses. Natural stone. Worn wood. Beautiful fabrics. Things with a little age and imperfection. Objects that make you wonder who owned them before you and what their life looked like.

I think the older I get, the more I’ve stopped questioning that instinct.
I still get excited by something new and I think design should always evolve. But I’m much less interested in whether something is “in” and much more interested in whether I actually love it. And I think that has made me a better designer.

Because the most beautiful homes, at least to me, aren’t the ones where you can immediately tell what year they were designed. They’re the ones where you can tell something about the people who live there.

Maybe that’s what I’m trying to create in my own home now too. Something layered and a little imperfect, filled with things that have stories. A home my boys can explore and remember.

And hopefully, one day, they’ll think about our home the way I still think about m

When I first stepped into this room during our viewing, there was something about it that stayed with me. The light, ori...
09/16/2026

When I first stepped into this room during our viewing, there was something about it that stayed with me. The light, original plaster details, French pocket doors. It was soft and romantic. More than anything, I could picture our family living here. The boys around the table, Sunday breakfasts, dinners with friends, holidays, homework, spills.

All of it.

The fireplace was something I knew I eventually wanted to revisit. My original plan was to restore the brick, but underneath the old mantle, the brick was crumbling. I made a quick decision about what came next. I wanted the new design to feel subdued and soft, slightly feminine and a little formal, but still belonged to a house that has stood for more than a hundred years.

Now, in the latest phase of our renovation, the floors have gone in and they might be my favourite addition yet.

I designed them as a French-inspired stone checkerboard, with tiny black cabochon details at the intersections. It’s subtle, but I think it’s what makes the floor. It breaks up the pattern, gives it that old world feeling.

I kept coming back to the floors you see in old French country houses. They’re beautiful and elegant, but they’re also meant to be lived on. Stone gets worn, edges soften, chairs scrape across it, dogs wander through. Life leaves its signature.

That’s really what I want for our home.

I have two little boys. They eat, colour and spill in here; and, inevitably, bring half of the playroom to the dinner table. But I also love hosting: setting a beautiful table, dinners that go on for hours. I don’t think those two things need to be incompatible. I want a home that can do both.

There is still so much layering to come. The fireplace needs its marble hearth, and then, it’s curtains, fabrics, art and all of those little layers that give a room warmth.

I want it to be enveloping in the winter, and lighter, fresher and more playful in the spring. Romantic and beautiful, but never so precious that my children can’t really live in it.

Because, ultimately, I’m not trying to create a perfect home. I’m trying to create a home that feels like it has always been here. My family’s story is just its next chapter.

This summer looked a little different from the rest.⁠⁠We were lucky enough to spend so much of it at the cottage, more t...
09/03/2026

This summer looked a little different from the rest.⁠
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We were lucky enough to spend so much of it at the cottage, more time than I can remember spending here in years. And I think we all needed it. A change of pace. A reset. Days that moved a little slower and were spent mostly outside.⁠
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But more than anything, this summer was really special for the boys.⁠
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I watched them experience nature with their whole little bodies. They ran through the forest with the wind around them. Picked berries with their tiny hands. Ran barefoot across warm patio stones. Helped me water the flowers. Felt the boat move with the waves beneath them and trailed their fingers through the lake as we went.⁠
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They didn’t just spend the summer ‘in’ nature. They touched it. Felt it. Played in it. Got dirty in it. They became familiar with it in that very natural way children do when we give them enough time and space to simply explore.⁠
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And watching them reminded me how easy it is, especially living in the city, to let nature become somewhere we ‘go’ rather than something that is part of our everyday lives.⁠
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I don’t want the boys to have to come to the cottage to know what warm earth feels like beneath bare feet, or to notice the wind, get their hands dirty, watch things grow and understand that they are part of this much bigger world around them.⁠
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So while this summer gave the boys so much, it gave me a little reminder too.⁠
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To slow down enough to notice these things myself. To make space for them when we’re back home. To let the boys get dirty, wander, touch, collect and explore.⁠
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And maybe to bring a little bit of this summer home with us ❤️

41 🤍⁠⁠If your dreams haven’t come true yet, please don’t give up on them.⁠⁠There were so many years I wondered when it w...
08/31/2026

41 🤍⁠
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If your dreams haven’t come true yet, please don’t give up on them.⁠
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There were so many years I wondered when it would be my turn. When I looked at the life I wanted, it felt so far away from the life I had. I wanted love. I wanted a family. I wanted a home that felt like ours. I wanted to build a business I was proud of. I wanted a life that was full.⁠
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Somehow, somewhere along the way, the things I once wished for became my everyday life.⁠
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I met the partner I didn’t even know existed. Someone so supportive, funny and fun, who is genuinely my best friend. We do everything together. He makes life better. And it certainly doesn’t hurt that he’s pretty hunky too.⁠
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If you’ve followed me for a long time, you probably also know how badly I wanted to become a mom, and how much I struggled with the fear that it might not happen for me. Today I have two beautiful little boys who call me Mom. They are the dream I still can’t believe came true.⁠
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I have the home I used to dream of having one day, currently torn apart as we renovate it into something that’s completely ours. I have a business I started from nothing. After years of uncertainty, mistakes, pivots, late nights and wondering if I was doing any of it right, it has finally grown into something bigger than I could have imagined.⁠
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And yet, I still catch myself asking: What’s next?⁠
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I think that might be one of the strangest parts of being human. We can spend years begging life for something and then, once we have it, become so busy living it that we forget to look around and realize:⁠
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“Oh my God. This is the life I was asking for.⁠”⁠
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So at 41, I don’t want my next chapter to only be about achieving more. I want it to be about being here for more of it.⁠
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At 41, I still have dreams. Big ones.⁠
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But maybe the dream this year is learning how to fully live inside the ones that already came true.⁠
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And if you’re reading this from a chapter where yours still feel impossibly far away, I hope you keep going.⁠
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Your life can change so much more than you think it can.⁠
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Don’t give up.⁠
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You might be closer to your “one day” than you know ❤️

I can hardly believe I turn 41 tomorrow 💌⁠⁠I sent my family a little birthday wishlist this year, and looking at it all ...
08/30/2026

I can hardly believe I turn 41 tomorrow 💌⁠
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I sent my family a little birthday wishlist this year, and looking at it all together, it feels very me and very much like the season of life I’m in right now.⁠
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Honest Cotton Louisa Cardigan⁠
Picture this layered with a maxi skirt and cowboy boots. So good.⁠
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Lack of Color Hats Palma Boater Hat⁠
For sunny days at home, at the cottage and hopefully wandering somewhere beautiful in Europe.⁠
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SOEUR Bala Flats⁠
Something chic but comfortable that I can wear all day, every day and with just about anything.⁠
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L.L.Bean Scotch Flannel Plain Nightgown⁠
I’m very happily in my old lady nightie era. There is truly nothing better than putting on a beautiful, comfortable nightgown at the end of the day.⁠
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Nicholas Mosse Pottery Mugs⁠
My grandma used to collect Nicholas Mosse pottery, so I’d like to start my own collection.⁠
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A few little things I would be very happy to unwrap tomorrow!!!

08/27/2026

Your aunt will always be there. To answer the call, keep your secrets, cheer you on, make you laugh, and love you like her own. 🤍 We love you Meagan Rose Wilson

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