18/11/2020
Meet Sebrina. She came out as a transgender woman 10 months ago and she’s on a journey to inspire people to be themselves and embrace who they are. “I would like to have an impact on the trans community, I just want them to feel beautiful and love themselves. I started loving myself because of the way I looked and I was just happy with myself for the first time ever and I wanted more people to feel like that and accept themselves. So that they'll feel beautiful no matter what.”
“It was a long journey to accept that I was trans but I kinda knew all the time, the feeling was always there with me, but I didn't want to accept it because I thought I could change myself. I tried to fit in with society. I just tried to be a normal and good child but then I realised I was miserable and I couldn't live like this. I tried so hard to fit in and I knew I was a transgender woman. I was just praying to God every night, saying 'Please make me normal', 'I don't want to be trans', ‘I didn't want this life’. It's difficult being transgender but I just had to accept it. Once I accepted it with myself, I was so scared because I didn't know what people were going to think because it's such a huge change.”
“My friends were very supportive. What I really like about my two best friends was that when I came out as trans, they never spoke about it and they treated me exactly the same as they always would because nobody's gender should dictate how you treat someone. I love how nothing changed our relationship.”
“I am my own personal motivational speaker. What really inspires and drives me is this quote, 'If you were about to die tomorrow, what would you do today?' It's about not caring about what anybody else thinks. It's all about being proud of yourself.”
She wants to inspire people to be brave and to truly accept themselves. Her advice to her younger self may inspire many as she said, “Just do it. Don't be scared, it'll all be worth it in the end. The fact that I started, makes me feel really excited. I've taken the first step and hardest step. I have changed so much since I left school. My confidence levels have gone up so much. Now, I am no longer the shy little kid in the corner.
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