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So I had this order…It was urgent, but when the customer first brought the fabric, it wasn’t urgent. We even had up to a...
05/07/2026

So I had this order…

It was urgent, but when the customer first brought the fabric, it wasn’t urgent. We even had up to a month before the date.

The issue started when it was time for payment.

We kept discussing, but she didn’t pay on time. And before I knew it, the deadline was already close… and it became urgent.

Now the funny part? She didn’t want to pay for urgent service 😅

I won’t lie, I was scared.

Because this was not just one outfit it was for her and her two baby girls. And I kept asking myself, “How am I going to meet up?”

But I took it on.

They stay far from me, so I couldn’t go back and forth for measurements. We had to do a video call, and her niece helped me take all the measurements.

I won’t lie, I was even more nervous because I wasn’t physically there.

But I trusted the process… and I delivered.

After delivery, she called me.

“My clothes are beautiful, I love it so much!”

I was so relieved and happy. I even appreciated the niece because she really helped make it work.

Then after the baby’s dedication, she called me again…

She was still so excited. She said her children’s outfits came out beautifully, and she couldn’t believe we got it right even without physical measurements.

That moment? Pure joy 🤍

And now…

We’re already planning her office outfits.

She said I’ll be the one making them because I delivered under pressure and still gave her something she truly loved.

Honestly, I’m so happy and grateful.

This is what I do.
I make clothes.
And I love what I do.

Thank you to everyone that trusts my work 🤍

So my colleague had a wedding… and gave us THREE months notice 😅Tell me why I was busy sewing everybody’s clothes… and f...
05/07/2026

So my colleague had a wedding… and gave us THREE months notice 😅

Tell me why I was busy sewing everybody’s clothes… and forgot my own ashebi completely.

Yes. Me. A designer.

My brothers and sisters, it was the night before the wedding and I had not even picked a style 😭

After going back and forth, trying to decide what to sew… I slept off.

Around 3am, I woke up and said, “Okay, let me just do simple top and trouser. Something quick.”

I even started it like that o.

Then one spirit whispered, “Designer… is this how you want to appear at a wedding?” 😂

I said ah ah, what kind of problem is this?

Next thing, I started converting the top into a full gown 😭

Mind you, this was less than 12 hours to the wedding.

I cut, I sewed, I slept small again, woke up early and continued… and before 12 noon, my outfit was ready.

And guess what?

Compliments everywhere. “Your dress is so fine!” “This is beautiful!” 😌

Now my question is…

Why are designers like this? 😭
Why do we always leave our own clothes till last minute?

We will deliver for everybody… but for ourselves? Emergency sewing.

Some people even sew theirs hours to the event!

What is really the problem? 😂

And before you people will now get ideas —
if YOU bring urgent work for me, I will charge you o 😌

That grace is for me and me alone 😭

Is it just me or my fellow designers can relate? 🤍

You know those days when you were younger, and some adults you respected would somehow still disrespect you?I remember t...
04/07/2026

You know those days when you were younger, and some adults you respected would somehow still disrespect you?

I remember that clearly.

And when it didn’t just happen once, but repeatedly… I noticed something about myself. I would start giving that same energy back.

If you talked to me anyhow, used abusive words or disrespected me, I would either:
• stop greeting you
• avoid you completely
• or respond with the same kind of language you used on me

Because in my mind, you already set the tone.

Then they would say things like, “If this is how you behave, people will do it back to you. Even small children will disrespect you when you grow.”

At that time, it used to get to me.

But now… I’m an adult.

And honestly? My experience has been very different.

These days, I even find myself sometimes keeping a little distance from children, but they don’t stay away from me. They come around me. They greet me. Some of them even greet me before their parents remind them.

They call me “ma” sef, and I’m like… do I look that old? 😄

But I realized something it’s because of how I treat them.

I respect them.
I speak to them with kindness.
I play with them.
I say positive things to them.

So naturally, they give that same energy back.

Even the children in my compound they relate with me freely. They don’t run away from me. They come close, gist, play, and feel comfortable.

And the truth is, not every child is perfect. Some are stubborn, yes.

But even in those moments, I don’t see any reason to use abusive words like “you’re mad” or “what’s wrong with you.”

No.

If a child is acting out, I try to understand first. Maybe they’re hungry. Maybe something is wrong. They’re human too.

I correct calmly.

If I say, “Okay, go and leave this place,” they listen.

And when I see them again, they still come back to me with the same openness and respect.

So I sat down and really thought about everything I was told back then…

And I realized something important:

Respect is truly reciprocal.

It’s not about age alone. It’s about how you treat people even children.

Because from what I’ve seen, I have not experienced children disrespecting me the way I was warned they would.

And it made me understand that sometimes, the way people treat you is simply a reflection of what you give.

That’s just my little finding.

And it has stayed with me. ❤️

04/07/2026

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04/07/2026

Eat or pass ?

No filter, that is my stew color without artificial tomatoes paste

Just a combination of pepper, tomatoes, onion and tatashe

So it’s another weekend to call my stepmom.Yes, people are like, “Ah, is it really that big of a deal?”Yeah… it is.It ma...
04/07/2026

So it’s another weekend to call my stepmom.

Yes, people are like, “Ah, is it really that big of a deal?”
Yeah… it is.

It may look small to someone else, but to me, it’s intentional. It’s love. It’s consistency.

Because apart from giving her money, making clothes for her, buying her jewelry and perfume… that call? That one hits differently.

My heart literally reminds me every weekend
“Babe, another weekend to call her.”

And I don’t argue with it.

Do you know something?
Me and my stepmom can gist for up to an hour on a call… if Nigerian network and time allows us 😄

And this is not even WhatsApp call o. She doesn’t use a WhatsApp phone.
So it’s direct call… real airtime.

And I don’t mind at all.

In fact, I budget for it every month.
There’s money I intentionally set aside just for airtime… just to call her.

That’s how important that connection is to me.

Because when we talk, we really talk.
She will gist me about everything happening around her… who came to visit, what happened in the area, small small gist here and there. And I just sit, listen, laugh, ask questions… enjoy it.

It’s never rushed.

It’s one of those calls where you just feel… present.

But let me be honest 😅
There is one part I always try to dodge…

The marriage talk.

“How far?”
“When are we coming to eat rice?”
“Pray about it o”
“God will do it”

And before you know it, she has entered prayer mode for me on the phone.

And I won’t lie I actually love that part too.
I love that she cares. I love that she’s concerned. I love that she wants the best for me.

But ehn… that topic? 😂
If I can escape it small, I will try.

Still, I won’t trade those calls for anything.

Because not everyone has this kind of relationship with their stepmom.
Not everyone can gist, laugh, pray, and still feel this level of comfort and love.

So yes… to some people it may just be “a phone call.”

But to me?
It’s love in action. It’s effort. It’s presence.

And every weekend… I’ll keep choosing it. ❤️

04/07/2026

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