04/09/2026
Some men shaa!
Even if you like, kill urself to please him. If he doesn't love you. He will still have zero regards for you.
So, there's this Malam in our compound. Our gate man to be precise. His first wife did everything to make sure her marriage wth him succedes but the aboki (already an alhaji ) still takes her as nothing. She has 5 kids( two sets of twiñs and her first child). She does the school runs alone, do everything even while heavily pregnant, severs her husband food at the small store at the front of our gate, takes up the gate man duty when the hubby is not around, keeps her surroundings neat, sweeps the whole compound twice a week just so she could earn a living from it and as well sell ground nuts and suger to support the family. U hardly see this woman nd her kids with different sets of clothes. They would we are wash nd repeat the same clothes. Some of the Plants , home appliances , school bags etc they make use of, us either she peak them from the bins or people will dash them. The small tend they sleep in has no bed , chair nor Television ne yet, her husband's family and friends come around and spend months wtthout her complaining. Infact, u will always see her laughing and gisting wth them.
Long story short. She and her family went back to the North this long vacation nd her husband already brought in a new wife. Finished the tent wth bed, fan, television etc.. This very new one is so lazy that she rarely sweep her surroundings. They stay so close to where we dispose of our waste and you would see flies petching their place, yet, the very husband that treated the hard working and submissive one like a plagues still loves and adore her. The ill behaviour of this new one is a story for another day nd she still get all the look and attention the first tried so hard to get wth all her hard work.
Bottom line: If a man does like nor find u appealing as his woman, ur behaviour nor kindness toward him and his family wont't make him do.
Love, Cherish , care and prioritize urself as a woman and wife.
EDY WORLD cares! Wish you a lovely weekend family.