16/05/2026
"Pls, I need serious advice. I know it's my mistake, but hear me out. A man came & proposed to me twice, & I rej£ct£d his proposal cuz I didn't have full information about his financial status.
The guy was too impatient. Somehow he met my sister then went ahead & proposed her. Actually, he didn't know we're related. She accepted him so easily. They went ahead & got married. He only discovered when they came to see my parents for bride price that she's my little sister.
The issue here is that the man is an accountant. He also runs businesses in the city. He is a rich man. When I ask for money from him, he tells me to pass through my sister. But when I go to my young sister, she will only give me ₦55k or sometimes 45k.
Her husband gives her sometimes close to 700k from the businesses & She'll give my parents 150k & her husband's mom 150k too. But to me, she's been st¿ngy.
She doesn't know this man was actually mine. He proposed to me first. If I want, I can start telling him to go out with me. For him to propose to me first, it means he loves me more than her. She's very st¥bb©rn & boastful.
On several occasions I've pleaded with my sister to equip my saloon of which it'll cost just about ₦900k to ₦1m but she keeps complaining that she's trying save money for her own business for now & necessarily doesn't want to ask from her husband...
I'm actually the first born. Most times, i feel she's doing all these things especially giving our parents allowances every month as financial support and at the same time refusing to help me so i can also stand on my feet is cuz she wants to show off or probably belittle me, cuz i do not support our parents financially that much for now, since I'm not financially stable. It makes me feel so emb@rr@ss£d.
Please don't judge me, Every first born will understand me. I honestly feel so emb@rr+£d & h¥rt as a first child. I'm truly h¥rt watching my sister trying to take my place as the first born. I feel ash@m£d, It's emb@r+r@ss¿
