30/01/2026
Hello, my name is Benjawan.
I am a mother of three who has experienced marriage, divorce, and remarriage.
I have personally gone through multiple family court matters, including child custody, child maintenance, and Protection Orders (PPO and EPO). I attended court many times without hiring a lawyer, learning how to stand up for myself and protect my children.
I created this page to encourage women to step out of fear, speak up, and take action — especially those who feel intimidated, bullied, or afraid to face court or their husbands.
This page is not only about my story. I also welcome other women who have gone through similar experiences to come forward and share their journeys. By sharing our experiences, we help other women realise they are not alone and that they have the strength to stand up for themselves.
This page shares lived experiences for awareness and support. It is not legal advice.