05/06/2026
I'm a pastor, and my first pulpit is at home 🏠 I have no business ascending the pulpit at church if my wife is unhappy. Scripture says I have to be a good manager of my home before I go on be a manager of God's house. The mistake pastors make is mind so much the bride of Christ (the church), but neglect their bride. As a pastor, back off, let Christ take care of his bride, you take care of yours. Rest, take care of your health, go on date with your wife, buy her flowers, be romantic, etc. Leave Bibles aside at times. That applies even to congregant, workers in churches. Yes, serve at church, but don't prioritize church over your family. Many are at church everyday, like Monday to Saturday, then Sunday; yet their marriages are dying. And many Christians live fake lives; are so holy on Sunday at church, dedicated, but are devils at home 😈 Charity begins at time. You have no business calling yourself a Christian when you can't even love your wife (Ephesians 5:25), or submit to your husband (Ephesians 5:22). Rather leave the Bible & church, go to the pup. It's time we stop it with the fakeness. Many are celebrated at work, community, and church, but at home are a thorn in the flesh. Your private life should precede your public life. Before you go make people out there happy, make sure people at home are happy. Omunye, just don't go out tonight, stay with family, connect, and you will not die. Always busy, spring chicken, all over, but family is starving for your presence. Danko, asbonge 👊🏾
