Lette's Create LLC

Lette's Create LLC Lette’s Create specializes in crafts, keepsakes & custom creations. I help you bring your ideas and visions to life through creative designs.

I also serve as an End of Life Doula & Memory Keeper, helping preserve stories, memories & legacy with care.

Psalms 90:12-17 NIVTeach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. Relent, Lord! How long will it be? H...
08/29/2026

Psalms 90:12-17 NIV

Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. Relent, Lord! How long will it be? Have compassion on your servants. Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days. Make us glad for as many days as you have afflicted us, for as many years as we have seen trouble. May your deeds be shown to your servants, your splendor to their children. May the favor of the Lord our God rest on us; establish the work of our hands for us— yes, establish the work of our hands.

Enjoy your rewards faithful servant Mildred Posey. Thank you for your Love & Dedication to your family & your community. 💜

I grow my accessories! 🌺My plumeria is BLOOMING!! And y'all know what that means…I finally got to pick a REAL flower fro...
08/26/2026

I grow my accessories! 🌺

My plumeria is BLOOMING!! And y'all know what that means…

I finally got to pick a REAL flower from MY plant and put it in my hair!

There is just something extra special about wearing something beautiful that I watched grow right outside my own house. No Amazon. No craft store. No swap meet required. 😂 Just sunshine, years of patience, & a little water.

Creativity doesn't always come from the craft room. Sometimes God does the creating. I just get to enjoy the fruits of His creations. 🌺

I was created to create.

Grief isn't always about death. Sometimes it's about what's missing.A couple of days ago, my wedding set broke. For more...
08/15/2026

Grief isn't always about death. Sometimes it's about what's missing.

A couple of days ago, my wedding set broke. For more than 20 years, these rings have been on my hand. Outside of surgeries, having babies, cleaning and repairs, they simply don't come off.

Recently, after some very well-meaning people became concerned about swelling in my fingers and the possibility of my rings eventually getting stuck, I finally agreed to have them resized. I didn't really want to. I knew the summer heat was contributing to the swelling, and because I've been losing weight, I suspected eventually I'd have the opposite problem.

But I listened. And now, in the area where they were resized, my rings have come apart. I was angry. I was frustrated. But underneath all of that, I realized something else:

I'm grieving.

Not because my marriage is somehow contained in a couple pieces of metal and some shiny stones. Kevin often says he has a ring around his heart, and I think that's the perfect way to describe it. I have a ring around my heart, too. My commitment to my marriage didn't break when my rings did.

But that doesn't mean these rings don't matter. They have been on my hand through more than two decades of marriage. They've been there while we raised our family, through moves, celebrations, ordinary Tuesdays, hard seasons, beautiful ones, and thousands upon thousands of moments I couldn't possibly name.

And then I looked at my hand. There's a tan line where my rings have been for all these years.

An empty space. And THAT got me. Because sometimes grief looks like that.

It is watching your child leave the nest, flapping those little wings you spent years helping them grow, while you're standing there thinking, Wait... you're actually supposed to USE those?! 🥹

It's the house you no longer live in.

The friendship that ended.

The job or career you thought you'd retire from.

The piece of jewelry you always wore.

The traditions that changed.

The version of your life you thought you were going to have.

Not every loss is bad. Not every change is unwanted. Sometimes we can celebrate what's coming next and still grieve what we're leaving behind. Sometimes grief is simply looking at a place where something has always been and realizing it isn't there anymore. That loss doesn't have to compare to anyone else's loss to be real.

So for now, I moved my 20year anniversary ring, the one I normally wear on my right hand, over to my left. It doesn't replace my wedding set. It carries its own chapter of the same story, and for now it makes that suddenly empty space feel a little less empty.

And since my right hand was now missing a ring, I added a plumeria ring to go with my plumeria bracelets, pendant, anklet and earrings.

Was completing the plumeria collection necessary to the grieving process? I'm The Memory Keeper. I'm going to say yes. 💜 That's part of grief, too: finding ways to carry meaning forward when something changes. Sometimes it's deeply sentimental. And apparently sometimes it's jewelry. 😏

So today I want to ask something a little different:

What have you grieved that had nothing to do with someone dying?

And what helped you make peace with the empty space it left behind?

—The Memory Keeper 💜

Excited for this opportunity!
08/04/2026

Excited for this opportunity!

I will craft at football games.Cheering while your orders are made.I will craft at softball, too.A hook, some yarn... a ...
07/26/2026

I will craft at football games.
Cheering while your orders are made.

I will craft at softball, too.
A hook, some yarn... a row or two.

I will craft at wrestling meets.
Between the whistles from my seat.

I will craft at graduation.
Making gifts for celebration.

I will craft at school all day.
On my break? I'll bling away!

I will craft while keeping vigil, too.
Creating comfort just for you.

I take my work most everywhere.
So when inspiration calls... I'm there!

I will craft at church with care.
Crocheting while the Word is shared.

I will craft at Bible study, too.
Hook in hand and faith in view.

I'll craft at book club.
Community meetings? Yep... what's up! 🤣

I'll craft while waiting in a line.
The Friday bin store line is perfect crafting time!

I'll craft while waiting on my car.
The dealership's not very far.

I'll craft upon my couch with glee.
Or in the kitchen sipping tea.

I'll craft here.
I'll craft there.
I'll craft most anywhere!

Some people carry snacks.
Some people scroll.

I carry glitter...
and a project to go. 🤣

Because I wasn't just created to sit...

I was created to create. 💜✨

Now... where have YOU caught me crafting? 😂👇

07/14/2026

Star Trek- Next Generation S3:E5

I've probably seen it before, but this time it hit differently.

It follows a young boy learning to navigate the death of his mother. There are no easy answers. No magical fix. Just people choosing to be present, to tell the truth with compassion, and to walk beside someone through grief.

Then it hit me...I would have been about 9 years old when that episode first aired.

One of those ages where we're quietly forming our understanding of life, love, loss, and what it means to care for others. It makes me wonder if that episode planted a seed I wouldn't recognize for decades.

As an end-of-life doula, I often say my role isn't to take away grief. It isn't to fix death. It's to help people walk through one of life's hardest chapters with compassion, presence, and dignity.

Maybe my calling didn't begin when I started my training. Maybe it was whispered to a little girl sitting in front of a television all those years ago, and quietly foraged its way through a lifetime of experiences until it finally bloomed. Funny how life has a way of connecting the dots long after we've lived them.

Have you ever looked back and recognized something from your childhood that played a part in your calling and shaped the person you are today?

It's graduation time! I can't wait to show y'all what I been up to! Sneak peak
05/21/2026

It's graduation time! I can't wait to show y'all what I been up to! Sneak peak

A moment in American history.Mamie Phipps Clark was alive in a time that still touches ours, and that should make all of...
04/28/2026

A moment in American history.
Mamie Phipps Clark was alive in a time that still touches ours, and that should make all of us pause for a second. The obstacles she faced, the battles she fought, and the work she helped push forward shaped the world we live in today.
Next month marks 72 years since Brown v. Board of Education, 72 years since the legal fight against segregation in public schools.
Let that sink in.
No matter what color your skin is, if you are around my age, 45 (but spiritually and emotionally holding strong at 27 😏), your parents, aunts, and uncles lived through segregation and desegregation. If you’re in your 20s or early 30s, that history likely sits with your grandparents.
This is not just Black history. This is American history. It shaped classrooms, communities, friendships, opportunities, and the country we all live in.
Go ask questions.
Ask what school was like. Ask what changed. Ask what didn’t. Ask what they remember, what they feared, what they celebrated, and what they survived.
A lot of them are still here. Take notes. Write down their stories. Share them with your children.
History is not as far away as people like to pretend.
Be a memory keeper.

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She asked two hundred and fifty-three Black children which doll looked like them. Her name was Dr. Mamie Phipps Clark, and some of those babies broke down and cried before they could answer.

That moment became the science the Supreme Court used to end segregation in American schools.Sit with that for a minute.

She kept asking the same eight questions, in the same order, of one Black child after another. The eighth one, every time, was the one that broke them.

Give me the doll that looks like you.

That was Mamie Phipps Clark's question. It was the one that made some of the children sitting across from her cry and run out of the room.

Some pointed at the brown doll and went silent. Some pointed at the white doll and tried to take it back the second their hand moved.

She watched it happen with two hundred and fifty-three children between three and seven years old. She wrote down every answer.

That is how she became one of the people who ended legal segregation in American schools. A young Black woman from Hot Springs, Arkansas, asking small children to point at a doll, and writing down what they said.

Mamie Phipps was born on April 18, 1917, in Hot Springs, into a household most Black families in the Jim Crow South could only imagine. Her father, Dr. Harold H. Phipps, was a physician from the British West Indies who ran a private practice and managed a Black resort and spa.

She knew, even as a child, that her family lived inside a thin pocket of safety the rest of Black Arkansas was not allowed into. Years later, asked when she first understood she was Black, she said she had known from childhood, because you had to wear what she called a certain kind of protective armor, all the time, and you learned the things not to do so as to protect yourself.

She remembered, too, that one day a Black man was dragged from a local jail and killed by a mob. She remembered it the way a child remembers something the adults around her went quiet about.

Her father sent her to Howard University in 1934 with two scholarships in her pocket and a plan to study mathematics and physics. The math professors at Howard, an all-Black university, did not encourage her, and she drifted toward psychology because of a young master's student named Kenneth Bancroft Clark who told her she ought to.

She had always wanted to work with children. She said so plainly later, that she had wanted to work with children from the time she was very small, and psychology seemed like a good field for that.

Mamie and Kenneth eloped in secret during her senior year in 1937. They told no one, because her parents did not want her marrying before graduation, and because she did not want anything in the way of her academic work.

The summer after she finished her undergraduate degree, she took a secretary job in the law office of Charles Hamilton Houston, the dean of Howard's law school. Thurgood Marshall walked through that office, and so did the case files for the fight Houston was building against Jim Crow.

She had grown up believing nothing could be done about segregation. Watching those lawyers in that office every day, that summer was the first time she let herself imagine the system might actually fall.

She went to Howard's psychology graduate program, and for her master's thesis she went into an all-Black nursery school in Washington, D.C., and started asking small children questions. The thesis was titled "The Development of Consciousness of Self in Negro Pre-School Children," and it became the seed of everything that came later.

She and Kenneth won a Rosenwald Fellowship in 1939, renewed twice, that let her go to Columbia University for her doctorate. At Columbia she was the only Black student in the psychology Ph.D. program.

Her advisor was Dr. Henry E. Garrett, a man who genuinely believed Black people had inferior mental capacity to white people. He assumed she would finish her degree and go back south to teach high school.

She finished her doctorate under him in 1943. She became the first Black woman to ever earn a Ph.D. in psychology from Columbia.

Even with that degree, she could not get a job. She wrote later that a Black female with a Ph.D. in psychology was, in her words, an unwanted anomaly in New York City in the early 1940s.

She finally took a position at the American Public Health Association analyzing nurses' research data, where she was the only Black person in the office. She called the work humiliating and distasteful, and stayed exactly one year.

In the meantime, she and Kenneth had been refining the experiment. They built it around four dolls, identical except for skin and hair, two with brown skin and black hair and two with white skin and yellow hair.

The Clarks could not buy Black dolls anywhere in 1940s America. So for the earliest tests, they painted white baby dolls brown by hand.

The procedure was eight questions, asked in a fixed order, of each child, one at a time. Give me the doll that you want to play with.

Give me the doll that is a nice doll. Give me the doll that looks bad.

Give me the doll that is a nice color. Give me the doll that looks like a white child.

Give me the doll that looks like a colored child. Give me the doll that looks like a Negro child.

And then, at the end, the question that did not have a hiding place. Give me the doll that looks like you.

They tested two hundred and fifty-three Black children between three and seven, one hundred and thirty-four in segregated schools in Arkansas and one hundred and nineteen in integrated schools in Massachusetts. The children mostly wanted to play with the white doll, and most said the brown doll looked bad.

When she got to the eighth question, some pointed slowly at the brown doll. Some refused to pick at all, and some broke down and cried.

She watched a four-year-old understand, in real time, that the doll the world told her was bad was the doll that looked like her. Then she watched the next child do the same thing, and then the next.

The findings upset her so much she delayed publishing them. She had grown up in a house where her father could afford the cost of dignity, and now she was sitting across the table from children whose parents could not.

In 1951, the NAACP came to ask if the work could be used in court. A young lawyer named Robert Carter, working under Thurgood Marshall, wanted social science as part of the case.

Kenneth went down to Clarendon County, South Carolina, to test sixteen Black children in the Briggs v. Elliott case. Ten of those sixteen pointed at the brown doll when asked which one looked bad.

He testified at three of the five trials that became Brown v. Board of Education. The lawyers wanted Mamie too.

She testified in the Virginia case, Davis v. Prince Edward County, in 1952. She sat on a witness stand and gave evidence against the very segregation her father's resort had tried to insulate her from as a child.

And against her own former Columbia advisor.

Henry Garrett, the man who had supervised her dissertation and assumed she would go south to teach high school, was on the other side of the case. He had taken the witness stand in Virginia and testified that Black children were innately inferior to white children, and that segregation did not damage them.

The NAACP brought Mamie in, in part, to refute him. She said it plainly, years later.

She said she had been there to help refute Garrett's testimony. He had been her sponsor at Columbia, and because she had been his student, and because she had some authority by then about children, she could help to take that testimony apart.

The Black graduate student her advisor had assumed would disappear into a Southern classroom was now the witness the NAACP put on the stand to do exactly that.

On May 17, 1954, the United States Supreme Court ruled unanimously in Brown v. Board of Education that segregation in public schools was unconstitutional. Chief Justice Earl Warren wrote that to separate Black children from others of similar age and qualifications solely because of their race generated a feeling of inferiority that may affect their hearts and minds in a way unlikely ever to be undone.

The footnote at the bottom of that page, footnote eleven, cited the social science research that had built the conclusion. Mamie Phipps Clark's work was on that list, and it was the first time in American history that psychological research was cited in a Supreme Court ruling.

Kenneth said it himself, late in life, when no one was making him say it. The record should show, he said, that the doll test was Mamie's primary project that he crashed, and that he had piggybacked on it.

But by the time Brown came down, she had stopped doing experiments. She had moved on to a different fight in Harlem.

In February 1946, with no agency willing to fund a child guidance clinic for Black children in Harlem, Mamie and Kenneth had walked down to the basement of the Paul Laurence Dunbar Apartments where their family lived and opened the doors of one themselves. Her father loaned them nine hundred and forty-six dollars to furnish the rooms, and friends who were psychiatrists and social workers volunteered their time.

She called it the Northside Testing and Consultation Center. It was the first full-time child guidance center in Harlem, and the first place in that part of New York where a poor Black mother could bring her child and have someone listen.

She served as the executive director from the day it opened in 1946 until she retired in 1979. Thirty-three years at the same desk in the same place doing the same work.

The first thing the community came in for was not therapy. It was the IQ tests.

In the 1940s, New York public schools were rounding up Black children and routing them into classes for the mentally disabled, often over the objections of their parents. A group of those Harlem mothers walked into Northside and asked Mamie's staff to test their kids.

Most of those children, when properly tested, had IQs nowhere near the disability range. Northside took the results back to the schools, forced the placements to be undone, and made the practice public.

That fight was the one she said meant the most to her. Near the end of her life, she said what she had gradually come to realize was that education was at the heart of the matter, and that she might not be there to see it through.

She sat on the boards of the New York Public Library, the Museum of Modern Art, Mount Sinai Medical Center, and the American Broadcasting Company. She advised Harlem Youth Opportunities Unlimited and the National Head Start Planning Committee, all while running Northside.

In August 1983, three years after she stepped down from the center she had built in a basement, Mamie Phipps Clark died of lung cancer in her home in New York City. She was sixty-six years old.

Northside is still open. It moved out of the basement decades ago and now sits in Schomburg Plaza at the corner of 110th Street and Fifth Avenue, serving more than two thousand Harlem children and their families every year.

Somewhere in the records of two hundred and fifty-three small voices answering eight questions, she had written down the moment American children learned to look at themselves and turn away.

And then she spent the rest of her life teaching them how to look back.

I put a lot of effort into researching and sharing stories that matter. If you'd like to support the work, here's the link:
https://buymeacoffee.com/blackhistoryarchives
Every coffee helps me keep creating.

NOTE: This post is shared for historical and educational awareness about Dr. Mamie Phipps Clark and the role of Black social science research in ending legal school segregation, not to glorify violence, hate, or harm.

04/20/2026

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