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08/23/2026

The last time I was single, I was 18 years old… and at that young age, I made a promise to myself to stay true to my values.

Life didn’t turn out the way I expected and starting over in my 40s was definitely never part of the plan. But one thing I’ll never regret is knowing I can look back with peace, because I honored the vows I made ‘til the very end.

And while this could be the season where I’m just “having fun” and doing whatever feels good in the moment, I’m choosing (once again) to stay rooted in my core beliefs & protect the things I’ve always held sacred in my life ✨

So this is your reminder, sis: your heart and your body are NOT something to give away just to feel chosen & you are not a prize someone gets to win. You don’t have to fit into what this generation has normalized. It’s okay to be a unicorn🦄🙃
You are wonderfully made by your Creator. You are worthy of being loved with intention, respect and sooo much care.

And whoever truly understands that, honors it & cherishes it… can have the privilege of loving you. True love will never rush you. Please never, ever forget that!!!

Survived the first full week of school with 3 kids in 3 different schools… so obviously we celebrate!! 🦋🥂😅This cute dres...
08/21/2026

Survived the first full week of school with 3 kids in 3 different schools… so obviously we celebrate!! 🦋🥂😅

This cute dress is linked in ShopMy through my bio! Rent the Runway

Summer’s not over yet… so you can still find me poolside ☀️🥂I’m soaking up every last bit of summer at  with a glass of ...
08/17/2026

Summer’s not over yet… so you can still find me poolside ☀️🥂
I’m soaking up every last bit of summer at with a glass of rosé in hand because I’m definitely not ready to give up pool days just yet!!
Thanks again for the invite BCI ✨

And yes, this 3-piece swimsuit is linked. Shop it through my ShopMy in bio 😘

POV: you said “casual Saturday” and I heard satin dress & somewhere pretty 🦋✨Obsessed with this satin little number!! Fi...
08/15/2026

POV: you said “casual Saturday” and I heard satin dress & somewhere pretty 🦋✨

Obsessed with this satin little number!! Find it on my ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/collections/7023053



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08/13/2026

Cancer taught me that fighting for my life also meant learning how to actually LIVE IT.

For so long, I thought loving someone meant fighting for the relationship at all costs. Trying harder, forgiving more, holding everything together… even when it was draining THE life out of me.
I thought being strong meant enduring, pushing through & carrying WAY more than I should.
I always came last because there was always someone or something that needed me to keep going.

And then my body forced me to stop and now fight for ME.
Cancer was my wake up call after years of stress, exhaustion and sadness I had normalized for far too long. I think my body knew the truth before I was ready to admit it…

It took me years to leave, but I finally did. And these days, I don’t stay where I don’t belong or where I don’t feel safe & cherished.

Surviving cancer changed the way I love myself. I no longer believe love should require me to abandon myself or fight to be valued and prioritized.
And I mean, honestly at this point, my tolerance for bu****it is pretty much zeroooo! And that applies to any type of relationship in my life. If it’s robing me of my peace, it’s gone!

I will never again confuse love with constantly having to survive it. And the bare minimum? Pleaseee. I almost died!! I’m not settling for crumbs 🫠👋🏻

Four years later, being cancer free is something I will NEVER take for granted. But neither is being FREE!!!

If any of this resonates with you, WELCOME. I hope this space helps you heal and realize that you deserve so much better!

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