08/18/2026
What producing my own fashion show taught me:
1. You can plan everything, and something will still go wrong.
At some point, you have to stop trying to control every detail and learn how to problem-solve in real time.
2. The clothes are only one part of a fashion show.
Models, fittings, music, timing, lighting, seating, backstage, photography, volunteers, transitions — suddenly you’re not just the designer. You’re producing an entire experience.
3. Your team matters. A LOT.
There are so many moving pieces that you physically cannot be everywhere at once. Having people around you who understand the vision and can execute without needing you every second makes all the difference.
4. Give yourself more time than you think you need.
Then give yourself a little more.
I gave myself about 2 years(started concept in Nov 2024) to produce and design this whole event. And I STILL needed more time…
5. You probably won’t experience the show the way everyone else does.
While everyone is watching the finished product, you’re thinking about the next look, the next cue, the next problem. It wasn’t until I saw the photos, reels, and videos afterward that I really got to see what we created.
6. PRIOITIZE YOUR HEALTH.
Mental, emotional, physical, spiritual. Your whole everything is being pulled and tugged everywhere. This is your baby, but burn out is crazy real. Delegate work that you can, you simply cannot do everything. AND THATS OKAY.
6. There is nothing quite like watching something that existed in your head become real… and I mean NOTHING.
Producing Illuminè stretched me in ways designing a collection alone never could. There are definitely things I would change (chille), things I would simplify (chilllllllle), and things I’d never do again (💀👀), but there are also moments I would recreate exactly as they happened ❤️.
Still learning. Still building. Still very proud of this one.
ÈLU by Èlon… until next time 🤭
Photographer: Mandee Reid Photography • KC Wedding + Lifestyle Photographer
www.elubyelon.com
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My heart is still so full, thank you everyone.
Running away, per usual.