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“ Do me a favor and know when to end things. When it causes you more pain than joy, end it. When it makes you feel like ...
15/10/2021

“ Do me a favor and know when to end things. When it causes you more pain than joy, end it.
When it makes you feel like you’re not good enough, end it.
When it doesn’t make you proud of who you are, end it.
When you know this is not what you deserve, end it. Have the courage to end what doesn’t serve you well. Have the courage to emd anything that manipulates you into someone you’re not. Have the kind of faith that gives you the power to believe that something better is on its way to you even if you can’t see it yet.

Muster the courage to walk away even if staying is more comfortable. Even if staying is all you really want to do. Because as much as ending things that we’re attached to is difficult, sometimes holding on to them is toxic. It’s toxic to try and fix something that already broken. It’s toxic to try and change someone who wants to remain the same. It’s toxic to drain yourself out of love when you’re not getting what you truly desire out of it. We don’t have to mourn all endings. Some endings maybe hard to swallow at first but when you look past the pain, you see the wisdom and the lessons behind them, the new opportunities they brought you and the new person they shaped you into. When you look past the pain, you will find that endings can be celebrated too. So do me a favor and know when to end things because nothing is worse than knowing you deserve more, knowing you can get a lot more than what you’re getting but you’re choosing to settle instead.

Nothing is worse than being with someone who challenges everything you believe about love. So do me a favor and know when to end things, especially if they make you love yourself a little less. Do me a favor and choose to end things that don’t make you a better person. Do me a favor and choose yourself. “
📷 Watts Place and Dream Casa

“ Please make sure that wherever you’re at in life, you don’t treat it like a transitory period. Don’t waste your colleg...
05/10/2021

“ Please make sure that wherever you’re at in life, you don’t treat it like a transitory period. Don’t waste your college years wishing to already be graduated & have a job. Don’t waste your single years wishing for someone to be in love with. If/when those things come, they will come in due time and they will be good. But there is nothing like looking back and feeling empty because you wasted literal years ignoring what you had because you were hoping for something better. While it’s important to better yourself and reach for your goals, don’t neglect the present because that’s where you are now and it’s your now that determines your future. “
📷 Mariona Autran

“ I hope you stop living a half-life; barely getting by, barely surviving, barely finding joy in anything. I hope you st...
22/07/2021

“ I hope you stop living a half-life; barely getting by, barely surviving, barely finding joy in anything. I hope you stop believing that you don’t deserve more or you can’t have more. I hope you stop settling because growing up that’s what you were taught. You were taught that it’s better to settle than to dream and fail. I hope you find the courage to change the old limiting beliefs that keep you stuck in your comfort zone or your distress. I hope you stop living a life that doesn’t fulfill you in every way because you’re afraid of change or failure. I hope you never let your fears stop you from trying for something you desire.

I hope you stop falling in love with half-hearted people or people who don’t give you their all. I hope you stop biting your tongue or lowering your standards just to make a relationship work. I hope you stop giving your all to people who give you doses. I hope you stop believing that half is all you deserve because you think it’s better than nothing. I hope you stop suppressing who you really are or silencing your voice because you’re afraid of people abandoning you. I hope you realize that love should feel safe and allow you to be who you are without apologizing for it.

I hope you learn how to say no to the people who don’t value you and I hope you learn how to prioritize yourself when you have to. I hope you stop diminishing yourself so others can shine and I hope you stop thinking that you should be the only one compromising or bending. I hope you stop pretending that you’re okay with something if you’re not and I hope you can stand up for yourself when no one else is standing up for you.

And last but not least, I hope you learn that half of anything won’t make you whole. Half an idea, half a relationship, half a career, half a life because you’re not half a person and you were born to live a full life and if your experiences have shaped you to believe that living a half-life is okay, it’s never too late to change that. It’s never too late to realize that you have been living half the truth and it’s time to find the whole truth. “
Words: Rania Naim
📷 simotto3 via In The City

“Wanting validation from others only becomes a problem once you start to depend on it. You shouldn’t have to wait for so...
14/06/2021

“Wanting validation from others only becomes a problem once you start to depend on it. You shouldn’t have to wait for someone to validate your every decision in order for you to feel confident about them. You shouldn’t have to wait for someone to compliment you for you to feel good about yourself. You shouldn’t have to wait for someone to recognize your efforts for you to start being proud of your progress. Don’t let the approval or lack thereof from others to stop you.

And please, with all the time that you spend taking care of others, make sure you are doing the same for yourself. Not just once in a while or when you realize you desperately need it. Taking care of yourself simply means nourishing your mind, body, and spirit in ways that work for you on a consistent basis. Don’t forget to give yourself the same attention and nurture that you give to others.”
📷 Ben'HOST'i

“ Night air, good conversation, and a sky full of stars can heal almost any wound. “ - Beau Taplin
01/12/2019

“ Night air, good conversation, and a sky full of stars can heal almost any wound. “ - Beau Taplin

“ I hope you know that you deserve it all. The best, the most honest, the most beautiful and purest love in the world. N...
29/11/2019

“ I hope you know that you deserve it all. The best, the most honest, the most beautiful and purest love in the world. Not only to be loved by others, but to be loved by yourself. To look in the mirror and think “yes, I’m exactly who I want to be”. To speak up and be proud of yourself. To be brave and open. You deserve the nicest and most caring people to walk into your life. You deserve it all, you know. The whole world. And you should never forget. “

“ I hope you know that you don’t have to explain your choices to anyone. Especially those committing to misunderstanding...
27/11/2019

“ I hope you know that you don’t have to explain your choices to anyone. Especially those committing to misunderstanding you or those expecting you to be someone who always plays it safe. I hope you know that you don’t have to stop yourself from doing what you want to do because someone else has a problem with it. I hope you don’t sacrifice your happiness because you’re afraid you might disappoint or upset others.

I hope you know that people will rarely understand why you do the things you do because they’ve never been in your shoes. They don’t know what moves you. They don’t understand what makes you happy or how long you’ve been waiting for something to happen and they surely won’t understand your heart, why you love and forgive some people and why you let others go.

I hope you know that people will always tell you things they don’t follow. I hope you know that people will take things they never had to endure lightly. I hope you know that you don’t have to repeatedly ask people not to meddle in your life or your choices. I hope you know that people will inhibit you if you keep putting their approval above your needs.

I hope you know that even if your choices were wrong or your emotions took over or you did something out of character that you don’t need people’s forgiveness as long as you can forgive yourself. I hope you know that everyone you meet is also confused or still learning and you can’t always count on what they say or what they show.

I hope you know that you’re the only one who’s going to live with your choices and you don’t have to defend them to those who are not going through your journey or dealing with your pain. I hope you never get trapped by their oppinions and their judgments. I hope your choices always set you free.

I hope you know that you don’t have to apologize to anyone for your choices as long as you’re willing to admit to yourself that you made a wrong choice and as long as you’re always redeeming yourself or learning because you don’t owe these people anything but you owe it all to yourself. You’re always one choice away from changing your life and I hope you know that it’s always YOUR choice, not anyone else’s. “

“ The 3 C’s in life: Choice, Chance, Change. You must make the Choice, to take the Chance, if you want anything in life ...
25/11/2019

“ The 3 C’s in life: Choice, Chance, Change. You must make the Choice, to take the Chance, if you want anything in life to Change.
And please take care of yourself. You’re all you have. “

“ Sometimes a break is all you really need. From relationships, friendships, whatever it may be. Sometimes time away is ...
23/11/2019

“ Sometimes a break is all you really need. From relationships, friendships, whatever it may be. Sometimes time away is the answer. “

“ Fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you. Who understand you even in the madness; someone who helps ...
21/11/2019

“ Fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you. Who understand you even in the madness; someone who helps you, and guides you, someone who is your support, your hope. Fall in love with someone who talks with you after a fight. Fall in love with someone who misses you and wants to be with you. Do not fall in love only with a body or with a face; or with the idea of being in love “

“ I learned the hard way that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings - even if I respect theirs. Being a...
20/11/2019

“ I learned the hard way that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings - even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn’t guarantee that others will be good people. You only have control over yourself and how you choose to be as a person. As for others, you can only choose to accept them or walk away.

To make the right choices in life you need to get in touch with your soul. To do this, you need to experience solitude, which most people are afraid of. “

“ Dear self,Sorry for putting pressure on you.Sorry for doubting you sometimes.Sorry for being so hard on you lately.Sor...
19/11/2019

“ Dear self,
Sorry for putting pressure on you.
Sorry for doubting you sometimes.
Sorry for being so hard on you lately.
Sorry for worrying so much about what the future holds.
This time around, i will focus on you and will love everything about you. “

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