07/05/2026
While boundaries are necessary, taking them too far can defeat their intended purpose.
Maybe you've experienced being cut off by your adult children without explanation or reason...
Maybe you only want a boundary in place because you desire to control the other person…
Maybe you've implemented boundaries as a demand for perfection, expecting the other person to be prepared to receive all the information and apply it immediately…
The truth is, a boundary is meant to be a communication tool to establish what is and is not okay. It is not meant to shove others away.
We understand that when relationship dynamics change, it can be tempting to set strict boundaries to protect ourselves and those we love. But there's a way to use boundaries to help us fight for the healthiest version of our family relationships.
If you're struggling to practice boundaries in your relationships, this conversation provides practical and spiritual guidance to:
• See boundaries as a way to find freedom, rather than a tool to isolate or control the other person
• Communicate clear consequences that provide an "If this, then that" framework, providing accountability, instead of cutting off the relationship
• Lead with humility and honor, approaching conversations seeking first to understand
Join Lysa Terkeurst, Shae Hill, Jim Cress, and Dr. Joel Muddamalle on this week's episode of The Therapy and Theology Podcast.
You can listen to this episode here: https://proverbs31.io/4uh2efP