25/02/2026
Starting chemotherapy is scary! It's confronting and lonely.
We see movies, we see stories, we know people and a cancer diagnosis throws you.
I am now half way through chemotherapy treatment (6 rounds in) and this is what I wish I knew....
Losing hair definitely is a reality and it is soul crushing. It's not about vanity, it's so much deeper. Hair loss will normally begin at the 3 week mark. Sometimes later. Even with preventative measures. The type of chemo makes a difference as well as so many other factors. I have lost hair, a lot of hair but it has been gradual.
Side effects are crazy! Different for everyone! Some are so random, like a swollen tongue... Other generic, like nausea. I won't like the first cycle completely knocked me... But we have found a balance with dosage and I'm managing ok. Some days I feel (dare I say) normal. Other days I do want to vomit, I have reflux and can't eat a thing. Everyday is different and every cycle is different.
I don't look sick, at least I don't think I do. Yes, I've lost weight. Eating through treatment just isn't the same. Taste changes!
Cancer treatment isn't a one shoe fits all, despite the fact that is exactly how it is prescribed and administered.
If you or someone you know is going through cancer treatment, please know that I am here to chat.