29/03/2026
I truly hadn’t planned to celebrate my birthday this year,
and not because I don’t value life or the blessings of another year, but because my heart has been carrying something heavy. Losing my twin brother changed everything for me. Not having him here is still so painfully real, and in my own way, doing nothing felt like how I could quietly honor him with love.♥️
But my friends… they saw me. They understood the silence, yet gently refused to let me sit in it alone. What started as no plans, turned into something so intentional, so thoughtful, and so full of love that I’m still overwhelmed.
For me, there’s no birthday without cake (Dad made sure of that 💕), and right on cue, there it was, such a small but deeply meaningful reminder of love and tradition. Then came the dress… a color I loved, a moment I didn’t expect, and just like that, the celebratory mood began to take shape in the most tender way.
But it wasn’t just what they did. It was how they did it. The way they showed up with care. The way they centered me. The way they spoke life into me, prayed over me, and covered this new year I’ve stepped into, holding back nothing as they were led by the Holy Spirit. They didn’t erase my grief, they held space for it, while still reminding me that I am worthy of joy, love, and celebration.
I love my friends so much, and I know without a doubt that they love me just as deeply. These are my forever people, my safe place, my cheerleaders, my prayer warriors. Thank you for celebrating me the way you did. It meant more than words will ever fully express.
And to everyone who wished me well, all of you. Thank you for the love, the messages, and the prayers. My heart is full 🤍
With all my love…
Happy Birthday in heaven, Big John 🕊️💙
