06/10/2020
I think the best way to enjoy this marriage of a thing is to take it off social media ,no marriage is special ,everyone can't be you,we quarrel and fight our siblings talk more of a stranger who just walked up to you and decided to make you part of their homes.
No matter how sweet the Love,there will always be a clash of personality,my husband can't be me and I can't be him either. We both have different life styles,goals and expectations and if we didn't see it coming we put the blame on our spouses
My parents are more than 30years in marriage,believe me they still fight each other😂😂😂 ,I ended up being a referee 😂😂😂😂😂and I don't defend anyone,
If you see my Mum screaming you pity my Dad ,if you see my Dad boiling you pity my mum but still they stood for each other .
No luxurious Life,No social media influence,no peer influence,no third party.It is just them and them alone .
The last time quarrel came up it was because of beans,ordinary beans😂😂😂😂 hiyaaan those two are Drama parents😂😂😂I and my kid brother will just be laughing like fools😂😂
Mummy said she has told Daddy to stop buying brown beans,oh yeah my Dad still shop for food 😂😂😂😂because he thinks mummy's apiriko is too much😂😂😂😂😂,now mommy is not happy again ,anything Daddy buys she will be against it😂😂😂😂😂,I can relate.
Okay as the chief judge I told Daddy to stop buying ,I will be doing the buying and Daddy became happy,my mum said since my Daddy is now my husband she is done with this marriage😂😂😂😂,I told Daddy let's pack her thing and send it to her parents house her own is becoming too much😂😂😂😂,mummy carry phone call her favorite Daughter boom she landed ,na so we come dey fight😂😂😂😂me with Daddy,sis with mommy😂😂😂,brothers jus carry phone dey video us ,food deh burn for kitchen😂😂😂😂😂😂we fight finish all of us settle,we ate burnt food and matter got settled
What AM I trying to say in essence,Marriage doesn't have special formula because it is not mathematics,my parents quarrels on daily basis, even phone charger brings issues but believe me ,the matter doesn't cross our door and it will be settled.
I see my parents marriage as the best,thank God my sisters learnt from them and are all I their homes managing it carefully.
My mum will always say ,Marry a Man whom you will always see as your brother and father and not just as husband,because if you always see him as husband disputes will always come and settling might be difficult,but if you see him as your Father and brother,you both will flow well .
I always watch my mum treat my Dad like her Son and brother,no matter what the challenges it,my mum won't allow you mess her husband.
I always admire her courage and pray to just be like her .
My Dad is not perfect either,his own problem worst but still my mum knows the best formula to use.
Marriage is sweet if you marry the right person meant for you.
Forget Riches and luxurious life they doesn't contribute to a successful marriage because if they do CELEBRITIES WOULDN'T HAVE A CLASHING MARRIAGE.
Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not abused,so enjoy the best of it with God being your CHIEF CORNER STONE,make him THE HEAD OF YOUR LIFE,KEEP CALLING HIM ON DAILY BASIS AND WATCH HIM DO WONDERS
Any body having challenges in their marriage,I pray that after reading this my parents marital lifestyle you will readjust and have a reason to smile again.
They are my ROLE MODEL and I thank God for them👏👏👏👏👏👏
GOOD MORNING❤
