03/09/2024
There's nothing more attractive than a woman who is secured in herself, can articulate her thoughts, has a mind of her own and yet is feminine!🥰.
Most of us ladies display masculine traits and think we're being bold or confident.
However my darlings, we can only enjoy life as ladies if we're walking in our femininity( being relaxed, calm, gentle, kind, joyful, positive, nurturing, non competitive).
It's rather unfortunate that most ladies aren't operating in this natural state(feminine era) and hence not enjoying the fullness of their being .
Again, this is not to blame us because this might due to traumas from childhood or as a result of abusive relationships.
But my Loves 💕 there's hope for each and everyone of us trying to heal and embrace our true being (feminine being) . I get how much you've been hurt and this has caused you not to trust anyone. Hence, you have become so defensive and aggressive .
Some of us have become so comfortable operating in masculine energy that we resist change.
For instance, I always hear some women say,"if I act feminine (soft, relax, calm, polite...), men will take advantage of me" .No ❌ my darling ! No masculine man will want to take advantage of a feminine woman unless he's a dumb of a man.
Hey! do you know that , you walking in your femininity actually protect you from non masculine men?.
Yes Soo.. my dear . This is because, these non masculine men (feminine men) won't be able to measure up to your standards since they're operating in their lowest..
Inother words, being feminine attract the right men and chase the wrong ones.
When you're a masculine woman, you tend to attract feminine men and by the time you get into a relationship with such category of men, you find yourself struggling, begging and fighting him to give you what you truly need . Guess what, he won't t able to give them to you because he doesn't have _ he's operating in his lowest..
Lets ask ourselves this question personally.
" Am I the woma