07/08/2020
👨👩👧👦Most parents want a better life for their child, surrounded by love and care. But loving and showing love are not the same thing.
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💙It is important for children to feel the love of their parents at all times, even when they are indulging, being naughty or getting bad grades. But they do not always understand that they are loved. When they misbehave, we can raise our voices, punish them, or take offense and ignore. At what moments can children convince themselves that their parents love them less when they do wrong. And when they behave the right way, moms and dads love them more.
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👶🏼If the child convinced itself about this, it begins to look for confirmation of self-love, tries to please his parents and justify their expectations at own expense. It becomes who his parents want him to be, not himself. In this state, the child cannot realize his talents and abilities. In adulthood, he may have problems with self-esteem, understanding his capabilities and interests.
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😘Show your love to children always, even when you are upset by their actions or tired of their pranks. I understand this is not easy. Support children when it is difficult for them, hug more often, spend time with them. Be empathetic - analyze what needs are not met, what controlled emotion makes the child behave badly. The only way. Don't look for a quick way to stop pranks and naughty.
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