29/04/2020
You won't find a Mom and Dad manual for this!
When I became pregnant, I read as much as possible and tried to seek out the best new parent advice. But now 2.5 months into being a Mom, I realize that nothing can prepare you for this experience! Here are the things I learned so far that may help new parents.
- Breastfeeding is HARD!!! Be prepared to have the baby stuck to you all day, especially the first month. Comfort sucking can make you break down and cry. Once I started pumping and having my partner do the last feeding of the night and the morning feedings, I finally felt a little more sane. Otherwise it feels like the baby is on the b**b 24-7. I promise you it does get easier.
- Colic makes you want to run to the doctor everyday. There is nothing worst than watching your baby arch their back, cry, twist and look uncomfortable every time they sleep. It still worries us, but at 2 months, we are really seeing an improvement. Remember it's normal!! The baby's digestive system is developing and you are not doing anything wrong. All you can do is be patient..it will eventually pass.
- You won't have any time for yourself. Eventually you will come to terms with this. Your free time is in the shower. That's pretty much it. There are days I think I will have some time to sit at my desk and design something new, but then another day passes and I am still in my pj's smelling like breastmilk with my hair all over the place.
So much more to share, but I think I hear the baby waking up so I can't even finish this post.
*Disclaimer: I love being a Mom and feel proud of me and my partner for everything we have battled through so far. This is still hands down the best thing that could have happened in our lives. Just want you to know that frustration, pain, and tears are all ok and just part of the experience.
Gotta go....breast duty calls
