Real Talk Relationships

21/03/2026

Hi, anonymous please.
I'm 37yrs and married for 5yrs now.
My husband gives me 3000ghc every month to run the home.
We have 2 kids (twins) and my husband pays their school fees and other school related fees.
Last month i asked my husband to use his laptop to do some research, i was doing my thing and a mail came through with the heading CAGD payroll.
Out of curiosity, i opened the mail and it's my husband's payroll, could you believe my husband earns 18,000ghc+, but he always act broke.
I confronted him and demanded he increases the monthly allowance, he said he won't.
What can i do to make him increase the money.
I'm a nurse.

Worried nurse(wife).

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25/02/2026

*EFFORT IN RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE*🪿♡♥︎

I sat in my car today, and interestingly, it didn't move by itself, I had to put the key into the ignition and start it. I had to step on the paddles to drive it and after driving for a while, I realized i was running down on fuel so i stopped by the gas station to refuel and even ended up servicing the car because it due. That is effort. The car won't move until I put in the effort. If I wanted to continue enjoying the benefit of the car, I had to maintain it by servicing it often.

Nothing works by itself. Your relationship or marriage will not work by itself or sail through storms by itself; it will need your input, which is your effort. How committed are you to your relationship and marriage? What effort are you putting into making it a lasting relationship. When you first met, what effort did you both make into keeping a relationship? Did you give it attention? Did you communicate often? Did you intentionally do things to please? Just like I had to start my car, refuel, and service my car, your relationship needs to go through the same thing. Nothing works without your effort.

25/02/2026

So this woman stood in the hospital room, the machines beeping, her husband laying half dead on the bed. Instead of praying, she took a selfie with no tears in her eyes...

She sent it to her boyfriend with a caption "He's almost dead. I'm finally free. I will be all yours now"💔😥

Just imagine the wickedness of Jezebel. She couldn't wait for the man to pass, she celebrated his death ahead of time with her favourite boyfriend. While doctors fought so hard to save her husband, she was already planning a new life with another man.

That man wasn't just sick, but he died betrayed by a Jezebel who had already moved on.💔😭

It's a cold and wicked world we live in.
Dear Men, please be careful of the woman you choose to do forever with. "The woman you choose to do the forever journey with, contributes to how long you will live on earth or how early you will leave this earth."
Be guided before you promote any woman to the level of a wife.

25/02/2026

I Was Stunned When, After 30 Years Of Marriage, My Cheating Wife Confessed, "Yes, I Had An Affair, And I Hid From You That Our Two Children Are Biologically His. But He Has Long Been Dead, And The Children Love You And Consider You Their Father." I Immediately Threw Her Out Of The House And Filed For Divorce, But Two Days Later, I Received A Call From The Police…

23/02/2026

I was born in Switzerland into a family that was blessed with abundance and this comfortable life had continued to surround me during my marriage to my first husband, Gabriele. From the outside, I was a vibrant forty year old woman who was married to a successful architect and a very loving mother to two wonderful children that I was blessed with. So why was I an in-house patient living in a psychiatric hospital, getting treatment for severe depression for the past six months?

I felt like I had accidentally fallen into someone else’s nightmare and every day I expected to wake up and breathe a sigh of relief knowing that none of it was real. But to my terror, everyday I continued to wake up to find myself still in this never-ending nightmare! This was not my movie, this was not my trailer! How could someone like me end up in a situation like this? But, wow, it really was happening!

What I didn’t realize then was that this terrifying predicament I was in was a part of a very painful birthing process that I had to go through to bring forward the real woman that had been deep inside of me, the real me, who had been struggling to be seen and to be heard. I had been so blind to her needs while attending to everyone else’s needs, that she’d started to suffocate. And when your soul starts to suffocate, your body will act accordingly and this is why my whole being was crippled by this terrifying disease.

The six months I spent at the psychiatric hospital was the peak point of this illness that had started to plague me some time ago. My dance in those murky, scary waters took about 2 years in total and today I can stand here and tell you with absolute certainty that depression was the worst thing, as well the best thing, to have ever happened to me.😓😓😓😓😓what should I Do?

23/02/2026

A year ago today was one of the worst days of my life.

a hellish day in a life that already was on a sickening downward spiral. I had an appointment with you later in the week, and at the time I could not even begin to imagine coming out of that deep, dark, spiraling abyss.

“But I did. One day I said that, ‘Eventually R____ and I will figure out what in the world we’re doing.’ Although I could not see how that was true, you seemed to believe it could happen, and your reply was a great comfort: ‘I’m absolutely convinced of that.’

“Sometime later, I told you that I would be okay. I was not okay at the time, and I didn’t know how I would be again, but it was a statement of faith.

“The other day I was talking with a friend whose relationship of 30+ years is in serious jeopardy. I was frankly surprised to find how truly “okay” I am now.

“I am, of course, the same person I was a year ago. At the same time, I am not at all the same person and will never be that person again. I am so much smarter, so much stronger, so much more vulnerable, and so much more open to lessons of the universe. I can’t begin to imagine how I would have come through all that hell without your help. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

23/02/2026

I’m on my third marriage. I was first married at 25. I got pregnant on my honeymoon. My husband was 5 years older than I. He was a good guy, just very sarcastic and immature when it came to planning for the future. We divorced after 3 years.

My second marriage was to a happy-go-lucky good-time Charlie. When he found out I could support our family, he quit working (no discussion) and his days consisted of visiting friends' businesses, golf, softball and boating. By that time he and I had a child. So I had 2 children, 2 businesses and a lot of responsibility with no help. After 18 years of doing it all and thousands of dollars in counseling, I threw in the towel and divorced. I had to pay him 300k.

My third marriage at the age of 58 is perfect. My husband is supportive in every way; he has a great sense of humor. we are retired and enjoying life and will celebrate 6 years in August of 23.

Sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs—sometimes you have to learn what you want. I think there are a lot of people trapped in unhappy marriages. Fearful of “the big D." Both of my brothers are... (30 years +).

In retrospect I didn’t give #1 enough time, #2 too much time…but that led me to #3, which is juuuuust right!

Everything happens for a reason.

23/02/2026

Real Talk Relationships

Differences Between a Wife and a Girlfriend

A wife is like a TV, while a girlfriend is like a mobile phone.
You watch TV at home, but you take your mobile with you when you go out.
If you run out of money, you might sell the TV; when you have money, you upgrade your mobile.
Sometimes you enjoy watching TV, but you often play with your mobile.
TV is free to use forever, but if you don’t pay for your mobile, the services stop.
TVs are big and often old, while mobiles are sleek, cute, and easy to carry.
The cost of using a TV is usually low, but mobile expenses can be high and demanding.
TVs come with a remote, but mobiles don’t need one.
Most importantly, a mobile allows for two-way communication (you can talk and listen), while a TV only lets you listen.
And finally, TVs don’t get viruses, but mobiles can!

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23/02/2026

Real Talk Relationships

You Should Never Try in Life…

1. Don’t love someone just for s*x. And don’t love someone only for s*x.

2. Don’t start a relationship just because someone looks good. Look for good character!

3. Don’t cheat on someone. It will hurt them a lot if they truly care about you.

4. Don’t shout at your parents.

5. Stay away from alcohol and ci******es! They may seem fun at first, but they can become a hard habit to break.

6. Don’t think about ending your life. It will only make your loved ones sad.

7. Don’t compare your life to others. You are where you are for a reason.

8. Don’t ask for money, love, attention, or help. Work for it!

9. Don’t waste time with people who don’t accept you for who you are.

10. Don’t listen to those who doubt you.

11. Always believe in yourself when starting something new.

12. Never give up on your dreams.

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23/02/2026

You Should Never Try in Life…

1. Don’t love someone just for s*x. And don’t love someone only for s*x.

2. Don’t start a relationship just because someone looks good. Look for good character!

3. Don’t cheat on someone. It will hurt them a lot if they truly care about you.

4. Don’t shout at your parents.

5. Stay away from alcohol and ci******es! They may seem fun at first, but they can become a hard habit to break.

6. Don’t think about ending your life. It will only make your loved ones sad.

7. Don’t compare your life to others. You are where you are for a reason.

8. Don’t ask for money, love, attention, or help. Work for it!

9. Don’t waste time with people who don’t accept you for who you are.

10. Don’t listen to those who doubt you.

11. Always believe in yourself when starting something new.

12. Never give up on your dreams.

Thanks for reading! 😊

If you appreciate someone’s hard work, give them a thumbs up and follow for more!

23/02/2026

Differences Between a Wife and a Girlfriend

A wife is like a TV, while a girlfriend is like a mobile phone.
You watch TV at home, but you take your mobile with you when you go out.
If you run out of money, you might sell the TV; when you have money, you upgrade your mobile.
Sometimes you enjoy watching TV, but you often play with your mobile.
TV is free to use forever, but if you don’t pay for your mobile, the services stop.
TVs are big and often old, while mobiles are sleek, cute, and easy to carry.
The cost of using a TV is usually low, but mobile expenses can be high and demanding.
TVs come with a remote, but mobiles don’t need one.
Most importantly, a mobile allows for two-way communication (you can talk and listen), while a TV only lets you listen.
And finally, TVs don’t get viruses, but mobiles can!

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23/02/2026

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