01/10/2024
Ladies,
Learn to stick to your principle in a relationship. If you don't want s*x, say no and mean it. Don't allow your emotions make you to compromise.
Don't let any man blackmail you emotionally. If you must do it, let it be your personal decision, but make sure you ain't doing that out of pity, don't be moved by his pleas or fake tears that he won't be okay if he doesn't sleep with you.
The same man you're trying to pity, will still be the same to blame you for not keeping yourself. He will still be the same man to leave you for someone descent. He will still be the same to discuss you among his friends on how loose you are.
Not being able to say no, is the reason why so many women ended up having so many body counts before they find MR right. You won't please every man that comes your way, you think allowing him access to your body will make him value you.
The biggest lie and assumption is to think that a man will hate you or dump you once you say no to s*x. Reverse is usually the case, except s*x is the reason he came into your life. The fact is that they will feel bad for not getting it, but at the same time they will praise and compliment you in your absence and before their friends for being descent, they will admire your modesty, virtue, strength and discipline.
If a man will want her sister to live a life of decency, trust me, she will also want that with the woman she truly loves regardless of his s*xual urges.
Men actually love it when women respect their bodies, but they will always pretend like they prefer it the other way round. It only takes wisdom and a brave heart to stick to one's principle.
Stop having pity s*x. Stop giving in to the pressure. If you must do it, make up your mind, decide on your own, but then I will still advise you to preserve your body. There's is dignity attached to that, and you won't ever regret doing that.