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13/03/2024

MALE COMMENTER:
“MEN(husband) AND WOMEN(wife)
ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR PROVIDING FINANCES”

RM:
NO. WE BELIEVE THE STANDARD SHOULD STILL BE——
“MEN ARE LEAD PROVIDERS, NOT WOMEN”.

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RM:
we posted yesterday——
“To some men who are poor providers at home,
your woman is TIRED.
you might lose her if you don't man up
and be the LEAD PROVIDER😔.

It has now OVER 10,000 responses, bakit kaya?
Dami bang girls ang tinamaan at relate???

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A MALE COMMENTER SAID:

This statement you gave RM,
shows a “double standard” in our society.

A marriage is all about HELPING EACH OTHER….
Whether its about FINANCES, house chores or raising children,
both husband and wife are "EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE…"

If one chooses to step up over the other, it is up to that person.
At the end of the day, what matter is both husband and wife agrees,
respect and love each other.

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OUR RESPONSE:

Sounds VERY FAIR, VERY GOOD, VERY EQUAL.
VERY POLITICAL CORRECT.
VERY DIPLOMATIC AND IDEAL.

Helping each other? YES.

But you say EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY?
NO. We DISAGREE.

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We DO NOT agree THAT should be the standard.

Although your statement of “HELPING EACH OTHER” is TRUE and GOOD,
PERO IBA YUNG "EQUAL DAPAT" SA FINANCIAL PROVISION…..

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Frankly, many men are now using that line——
EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY IN PROVIDING,

so that the true challenge and burden to be lead provider
can be LIFTED SOMEWHAT(bahagya/portion) OFF THEIR SHOULDERS,
AND THE WILLING SACRIFICIAL WOMAN
is more than willing to work and give more money.

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Yes, “Helping Each Other” sounds good-
-the teamwork,
the good chemistry,
the EXPONENTIAL REWARDS OF BOTH MAN AND WOMAN EARNINGS COMBINED....

but, this good data
will NOT CANCEL THE OTHER SIDE
NA HINDI MAGANDA….

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THIS IS WHAT MANY SINGLE MOMS KNOW TODAY:

Mas maraming guys ang HUMINA, MAS naging PASSIVE,
MAS PWEDENG MAG-ONLINE GAMES AND NOT BE too passionately DRIVEN na kumita,
because the wife/woman brings home the bacon.

Maraming lalake, truly ginamit itong “TEAMWORK IN FINANCES”
AS A SHIELD…..
to hide their GROWING LAZINESS, PASSIVENESS
bec the woman will always deliver financially, sacrificially.

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We believe the STANDARD should still be “MEN ARE LEAD PROVIDERS”.

NOT

“MEN AND WOMEN are EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR PROVIDING FINANCES”

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PUSHING THE STANDARD TO COUPLES NA DAPAT EQUAL SILA MAGBIGAY NG PERA….

IS ALLOWING MORE PASSIVENESS AND LAZINESS IN MEN
TO PROVIDE MORE AND LEAD WELL
WHO ARE ALREADY GLARINGLY BEHIND
IN A PINOY CULTURE LED BY MORE SACRIFICIAL WOMEN.

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07/03/2024

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