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One thing that not everyone understands but that I’m consumed with is how design is made up of a million small things th...
08/08/2026

One thing that not everyone understands but that I’m consumed with is how design is made up of a million small things that all add up to something greater than their parts.

How every choice is an opportunity to do something fresh, unexpected, bold or unique that create just a tad more interest and holds your eye in a way that feels satisfying.

In his book Unreasonable Hospitality, Will Guidara tells a story that lives in my bones now. It’s about how Walt Disney made the engineers at Disney create subtle movement in their animatronics so they were more life-like. Something no one would name explicitly but that they would feel. ✨

Here are a few examples of details I’ve included in some of my designs to show you what I mean.

Oversized art here is obviously eye catching. But, wood slat wall that creates separation but still lets air and light through. Also the texture of the light fixture 😍

This is a story about mixing textures on a neutral and calming bedroom. Notice the subtle stripe, jacquard bolster, nubby bed frame and luxurious drapes. (The fall colors out the window don’t hurt either)

White bathroom fixtures feel so fresh and playful to me. Just something that you see less than traditional brass or chrome.

The shapes and lines here from the backs of the stools, to the throw pillows and paper pendants create a lot of interest.

Another wood slatted half wall to conceal a commode and a subtle crackle texture on this light fixture feels like an organic touch that works with the handmade tile.

The windows, and bench / book storage are very square while the opening and seating is a mix of soft round shapes.

(Pillows don’t have to be square)

The look of a plant breaking up the lines of a shelf is something I just like. I don’t know why. Also the handmade pottery 😍

Another example of geometry play. Square tiles, bobbin mirror, and textured wood create a nice mix that avoids to much of the same same for your eye.

07/18/2026

Here is what I would say to a friend (not a client)

My clients pay me for my taste and expertise, so clients, I’m not talking to you. :)

DIY’ers and new friends seeing this:

Trust yourself. There are so many roads to cool and good and inspiring. The coolest people and the coolest homes are the ones that are personal and reflect the occupants’ life and history.

Also, it takes time and you’re doing great. Follow folks who can help share their knowledge and help you to develop your taste or evolve but never feel badly if you disagree with them. Trust your gut. You’re so capable and powerful.

I could write an essay on this. Maybe I will sometime. :)

What do yall think about all of this?

🏷️ DIY home, interior design, how to, home styling

07/12/2026

Where to do we overlap?
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PS— Style Study with art sources, exactly how to make your open shelving look good and how to select curtains and pillows all coming up this week. Follow for Part 3.

🏷️ home design, DIY home design, interiors, how to

07/11/2026

A few more tips 👇

I asked for your questions about art in my story the other day and gallery walls were a big topic.

As I’m sure you’ve felt- design is moving to a more warm, layered, cottage feel and is less minimal and spare. Gallery walls fit right into this vibe.

I’m predicting their comeback big time.

1. For cohesion notice how some are themed. Outdoorsy things, bold color palettes that all work, folk art.

2. You can start with just 6-8 pieces. No need to get nuts.

3. Holes can be patched. (Or covered!) don’t let that stop you.

4. If you like it, you can include it. It’s meant to be eclectic and represent you.

5. Frame your family photos! You have a million on your phone. Print them and use them.

Should I make a video with my favorite artists and sources first art?

🏷️ home design, diy interiors, interior design, how to

07/10/2026

It’s time to hang some art! Drop your art questions below

1. Most people hang it too high. The center of the piece should be at eye level 55-60 inches from the floor, or 4-6” above the furniture beneath

2. Go big. You don’t need to fill every wall with huge art, but if you do have a big swath of drywall and big piece is transformative. It should fill 2/3-3/4 of the wall.

3. Or go small. 2 small pieces above nightstands is a cool look, especially if you have a window above your bed.

4. Consider hanging things besides traditional framed art

5. Hang art in weird places

Tomorrow I make my defense of gallery walls! Follow for part 2.

Keywords: interior design, diy home, diy, how to

07/09/2026

Styling is The One. She is that girl. You can pry this opinion from my cold dead hands.

My next series (new series name still loading) will focus on all these details that put your rooms into jaw dropping territory.

Overwhelmed?

Comment book if you want to hang out with me for an hour and get some extra help.

Comment anything else that’s on your mind too.* 🤍

*as long as it’s respectful. I got my first ugly message yesterday and this page has a strict kindness only policy.
With love and boundaries xx

07/08/2026

If you learn best by reading 👇

1. When mixing patterns, vary the scale. For example, larger florals with a smaller stripe.

2. Vary visual weight. Select low chunky heavier pieces then pair them with leggy ones that are visually lighter

3. Mix nubby soft textures like wool or shearling with sleek harder textures like marble or metal. This keeps your room from looking like you purchased a generic showroom floor grouping.

4. Go big. Bigger rug and bigger art. I can say more about this but I promise this is the way.

5. Details and styling will make or break the room. Curtains, art, vases, objects, decor are the secret sauce to take your space from good to breathtaking

My next series is all about styling and how to make your home a place you feel proud of.

Hit follow, save this for later, and always, leave your questions in the comments. I’ll answer them🤍

07/07/2026

Comment “source” to get all my favorites sent right to your DMs.

I’m going to talk more about sourcing and pulling your design together in the next part, so hit follow and let me know if you’re struggling with anything specific. I read all the comments.

Keywords: home design, DIY design, how to, how to design your own home, series

07/06/2026

$$$$$

Your home design needn’t put you in the poor house.

(More like Pour House. Cheers!🥂)

If you have any questions about creating a scope and budget let me know in the comments.

It’s almost time to start making selections!... Follow for Part 5

Keywords: interior design, diy home design, how to, interior designer

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