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07/07/2026

17 years later… & he still chooses to date me. 🥹❤️

People see the pictures, the matching outfits, the smiles, the chemistry… but what they don’t always see is the intentionality behind it all.

Marriage isn’t something you put on autopilot and expect it to thrive. Life gets heavy. Responsibilities pile up. Stress can make you laser-focused on survival, causing you to become one-dimensional. If you’re not careful, self-preservation quietly replaces serving one another.

Nobody really talks about how easy it is to drift.

What has kept us anchored isn’t that we’ve never faced hard seasons—it’s that we’ve continued choosing each other, over and over again.

I’ve learned that a healthy marriage requires three things:

🤍 To be led by God—not your feelings.
🤍 The willingness to RESET daily. Yesterday’s mistakes don’t have to become today’s identity.
🤍 The willingness to die to your flesh so two people can truly become one. Ironically, when you genuinely put your spouse first, you’re also strengthening yourself because what blesses one blesses the other.

After 17 years, I can honestly say our greatest accomplishment isn’t staying together… it’s continuing to pursue one another.

Lord, thank You for the man You’ve created in Your image and likeness. Thank You for his heart to lead, even when the world constantly tries to redefine what a man should be. Thank You for his conviction, because there are moments when my words can’t reach him, but Yours always can.

Thank You for giving us two hearts that still desire to stay connected—not just because of the commitment we made to each other, but because of the covenant we made with You.

May we never stop choosing one another.

In Jesus’ name, Amen. 🙏🏾❤️

If you’ve been married for years—or you’re praying for marriage—what do you believe is the secret to staying connected through every season? I’d love to hear your thoughts. 💬

07/02/2026

Lately, I’ve been tapping into ME… discovering me, for me. And in that discovery, I’ve realized something about myself: being unprepared truly makes me tick. It throws me completely off balance, and sometimes it’s hard for me to recover from it.

But through prayer and reflection, I’ve also realized something even deeper…

There have been things I’ve prayed for, cried for, and believed God for. Then when those prayers actually showed up, I was almost flabbergasted. Why? Because the answer didn’t arrive the way I pictured it. It didn’t look like what I asked for. It didn’t happen on my timeline or in the package I expected. So instead of celebrating the answered prayer, I found myself confused, frustrated, and trying to piece together why God would answer me like THIS. 🤦🏾‍♀️💕

And that made me realize something powerful…

Be careful what you pray for. Not because God won’t do it, but because He just might give you EXACTLY what you asked for—just not in the way you imagined. Timing matters. Seasons matter. Preparation matters.

So today marks Day 1 of my kitchen restoration. 🏡🛠️

What I’ve been looking at as a setback, a detour, and honestly something I never wanted to deal with, may actually be God’s prerequisite course for something SO much bigger. This isn’t the final destination… it’s the training ground.

Because if I’m believing God for bigger, then I have to be willing to learn, grow, build, and prepare for bigger.

Today, I start from scratch in this kitchen and discover what it really takes to build something from nothing. And every tool I learn to use here, every lesson I learn in this season, I’ll apply to what’s next.

Because I truly believe God isn’t just preparing my kitchen… He’s preparing ME. And something tells me He’s about to blow my mind. 🤯🙌🏾🙏🏾💪🏾

Have you ever realized that the thing you thought was a setback was actually God preparing you for the blessing you prayed for? Share your story below—I know I can’t be the only one. ❤️

05/18/2026

& sometime you just over due for a PRAISE BREAK! 🙌🏾 Don’t matter the time, situation, or what the day looking like… when God been good, BABY you better act like it! 👏🏾

On this particular day… my mind was EVERYWHERE. Busy. Overthinking. Asking God for overflow. Asking Him to increase. Asking Him to move.

And just that quick… He reminded me I already had something to shout about. 😭

The number of orders may have been low that day… BUT BABEEE the amount each customer spent was UP ⬆️ & in abundance! 💰

That thing hit me so hard because it made me realize there’s VALUE in QUALITY customers over quantity. Whew!

More money 🤑 with LESS work while my hands 🙌🏾 already full?! LOOK AT GOD! Won’t He do it?!

Because babeee one thing about me… a chair HATE to see me coming 😂 because I’ll break out in praise anywhere! Could be gratitude 🙏🏾, confusion, frustration, or exhaustion… child ima still get up & worship.

I’m learning sometimes you confuse the enemy by praising God BEFORE it all makes sense. 👏🏾

And sometimes you can’t even find the words… but God is a HEART reader. So keep your heart posture good, get up & dance 💃🏾 anyway, and watch how QUICK the atmosphere shifts. ✨.

05/14/2026

TBT …. Mrs. Green the School Teacher 👩🏾‍🏫
Well allow me to reintroduce myself from my past life. Hi 👋🏾 everyone, I’m Mrs. Green… The School Teacher 👩🏽‍🏫🍎

Now listen… WHO would’ve thought 💭 that volunteering at my son’s school in 2018 (which was really just me being a concerned mama because we had JUST moved to Texas & it was his first time in charter school 🤷🏽‍♀️) would turn into a full blown teaching opportunity?!

Baby when I say God will place you somewhere you NEVER imagined… HE WILL. One regular day of helping out, loving on kids, being patient, showing up, and minding my business turned into the principal basically interviewing me on the spot asking if I had a degree 😂

And at the time… your girl had JUST earned her bachelor’s degree 🎓👏🏾

Now let me tell y’all something… teaching is NOT for the weak 😮‍💨😂 Them babies will humble you QUICK. But they also taught me some of the greatest lessons of my life. Patience. Discipline. Routine. Balance. Grace. And most importantly… dependence on God.

There were SO many nights I cried because I wanted to quit. Whew 😩 Entrepreneurship was calling my name, the boutique was on pause, and I couldn’t understand why God had me in a classroom instead of fully chasing my own dreams. But looking back now… it was never about the money. It was about the assignment ✨

Those kids needed love. Structure. Consistency. Somebody to SEE them. And somehow God trusted ME enough to help carry that assignment during a season where schools were lacking teachers.

And baby if God brings you to it… He’ll definitely walk you through it 🙌🏾

That season stretched me, strengthened me, kept me on my knees praying DAILY 😂 and honestly made me a better woman, mother, entrepreneur, and leader.

So although that chapter may be in the past… if you know me then you KNOW teaching & kids will forever hold a special place in my heart ♥️🥹

Okay your turn 👀👇🏾What’s one occupation or season from your past that helped shape the person you are today?

04/24/2026

Wait… before you scroll, pause right here sis 🤍 because this one is for YOU.

I used this video to take a moment to highlight us women… the ones who don’t clock out. The ones running households, building businesses, raising babies, showing up as wives, friends, daughters, and caregivers… all at the same time.

Because let’s be real… we’re not just taking care of kids. We’re pouring into everybody.

And I just want to say this—just in case nobody told you today… YOU ARE DOING A FANTASTIC JOB 👏🏾

Even on the days when life feels heavy…
Even when the enemy tries to throw situations your way to break you…
You still show up with kindness, consistency, and unwavering faith.

That strength? That grace? That’s not by accident… that’s God working through you.

And let me remind you of this… God doesn’t sleep. He sees every sacrifice, every tear, every silent prayer. What you’ve been sowing into your life, your family, and your purpose… it’s going to show up. In due time, you WILL see the fruit 🌿

If this spoke to you, stay connected with me 🤍
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Now tell me this… what’s ONE thing you’re proud of yourself for this week? 👇🏾

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04/20/2026

Would you believe me if I told you this voiceover is being done at 6 AM… yes, 6 in the morning 😩

Not because I wanted to be up… but because I’m still trying to shake the anger from yesterday. & yes I said anger 🤬 but honestly I do get mad/ upset about things but barely ever get angry. Anger to me requires hate & longevity & I pride myself on not having time for that because it allows you to become STUCK & harbors unforgiveness. & I just don’t want that for myself.

And babeee when I say it had me… it HAD me. To the point where I’m up here re-cleaning stuff I already cleaned 🧼😒 Like girl… be serious lol. Folding, straightening, doing anything just to calm my mind… and in the middle of all that, I’m still trying to show up as a mom, — showcasing new arrivals, creating content, & still pushing through.

Now let’s not ignore the real star for a second 😍 THIS DRESS?! The material? Everything. The color? Everything. It’s giving spring, it’s giving soft, it’s giving “yeah I needed this” 💕🌸

But back to the real…

I had to literally sit myself down yesterday. No phone. No distractions. Just me & God. Because I knew if I didn’t shift that feeling, it was gone spill over into everything.

Turned on my gospel 🎶 and right on time… one of my favorite songs came on. And just like that, I felt it lifting. I prayed. I breathed. I released it.

And look at me now… back working, back creating, back focused 🙌🏾

It really blows my mind every time how good God is. No matter how heavy it feels in the moment, He always knows how to pull me back in, reset my mind, and remind me of what really matters.

Whew… growth looks like this right here 💯

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04/20/2026

Would you believe me if I told you this voiceover is being done at 6 AM… yes, 6 in the morning 😩

Not because I wanted to be up… but because I’m still trying to shake the anger from yesterday. & yes I said anger 🤬 but honestly I do get mad/ upset about things but barely ever get angry. Anger to me requires hate & longevity & I pride myself on not having time for that because it allows you to become STUCK & harbors unforgiveness. & I just don’t want that for myself.

And babeee when I say it had me… it HAD me. To the point where I’m up here re-cleaning stuff I already cleaned 🧼😒 Like girl… be serious lol. Folding, straightening, doing anything just to calm my mind… and in the middle of all that, I’m still trying to show up as a mom, — showcasing new arrivals, creating content, & still pushing through.

Now let’s not ignore the real star for a second 😍 THIS DRESS?! The material? Everything. The color? Everything. It’s giving spring, it’s giving soft, it’s giving “yeah I needed this” 💕🌸

But back to the real…

I had to literally sit myself down yesterday. No phone. No distractions. Just me & God. Because I knew if I didn’t shift that feeling, it was gone spill over into everything.

Turned on my gospel 🎶 and right on time… one of my favorite songs came on. And just like that, I felt it lifting. I prayed. I breathed. I released it.

And look at me now… back working, back creating, back focused 🙌🏾

It really blows my mind every time how good God is. No matter how heavy it feels in the moment, He always knows how to pull me back in, reset my mind, and remind me of what really matters.

Whew… growth looks like this right here 💯

Ps. Loving💕this look 👀 comment “ Maxi” & I’ll dm you the direct 🔗
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04/19/2026

Okay but babyyyy… this right here?! 😍🔥

It’s giving classy, it’s giving effortless, it’s giving “I didn’t try too hard but STILL shut it all the way down.” That soft pink tone?! Whew 😮‍🔥… it’s the kind of color that speaks before you even say a word.

And can we talk about that fit?! Snatched at the waist with that drawstring detail, flowy in ALL the right places, and comfortable enough to wear all day without sacrificing the look 👏🏾

This is one of them outfits you throw on and instantly feel like HER 💁🏾‍♀️ Whether you stepping out for brunch, a meeting, or just outside turning heads… yeah, this the one.

Paired it with a gold bag to elevate the whole vibe because baby… details matter ✨

Loving this look 😍
Comment “Pink Posh” & I’ll dm you the direct link 🔗

04/18/2026

Sooooo boom 💥😂

He done woke up… & I’m already back in position like I never asked for NOTHING 🤭 … hoping he forgot the whole conversation from earlier 😏

Whole time just to double back at him extra soft like…
“Bae… just give me my money 💰”

Y’all… WHY this man look at me, smirk & start a whole concert 🎤

🎶 “Looks like you ran out of optionssss…”
🎶 “You betta save… you betta SAVE…”

I said SIRRRRR 😭😂😂😂😂 not you remixing my request!!!

At this point I’m standing there like… am I getting paid or am I getting a performance??? 🤨

This house??? BABY it’s a whole comedy show 🎭
You really NEVER know what’s gone come out this boy mouth 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

But ima still spin the block later though… cause one thing about me…
IM NOT DONE ASKING 💅🏾💰😂😂😂

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04/17/2026

& I promise you… this little girl is the sweetest side of me. The very best part of my day. My forever reminder that heaven still sends blessings right on time 😇✨

Becoming a girl mom… whew, nobody really prepares you for it. It’s a different kind of love. A deeper kind. The patience, the guidance, the growing together… it’s been nothing short of beautiful.

From the softest little kisses 💋 in the most random moments… to that smile that’ll melt me every single time… and don’t let her get quiet, because that little chuckle 🤭 means she’s up to something she probably shouldn’t be doing 😂

Some days I really sit back in complete awe like… God really trusted me with a little me. A whole reflection of love, grace, and purpose running around calling me “Mama.”

And baby girl, your smile reminds me daily that God lives within people. That love is real. That joy is pure.

I love you past the stars and beyond 💫
Forever & always…
~Kalani Mo’Nae 💕

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