10/17/2026
Someone asked me to put my thoughts in this format because it helped them and they wanted to share incase it will help other people. I hate all of this. There are too many people that need so much help. If you don’t know how to help, just do what feels right. Don’t second guess yourself, you have good instincts. No one is going to judge the way you helped. I don’t know how best to help either. So I’m just doing what feels right one second at a time. We’ll all make mistakes and what’s needed today won’t be the same thing that’s needed tomorrow, but it’s better to try than to worry that you did something wrong.