03/17/2026
Her long daily commute to work is about to start & she goes thru her checklist.✅Hair done:a bun with a black plastic round clip with long teeth. ✅Saree for work, draped with practiced ease and no pins. ✅loose change taken from box of coins saved in almirah for bus tickets✅Steel almirah locked ✅Almirah lock rechecked by pulling down the handle. Satisfied, she tucks the bunch of keys at her waist, with the hook on the key ring. And starts walking to the bus stop. The keys remain secure, thru her commute of crowded public buses, and thru her day as a chemistry professor teaching classes and labs. Once home, those keys are kept safe under the mattress.
My Aai’s keelicha guchha, chaabi ka challa, keys and the key holder, were part of her signature look, for as long as I can remember. Being the youngest, when she gave those keys to me, to open her almirah, a thrill of responsibility and being grown up had spread thru me🥰. I was reminded of all this today, when I came across post on . Many women in India have challa, a small waist jewelry piece, which is decorated beautifully and usually has small ghungroos on them. My Aai reserved another waist jewelry for special occasions and it was the Mekhala, a bigger, longer piece made with dainty chains and had a hook at each end, to secure at waist.
Is there a connection to be explored? Would .india and be able to shed some light?