10/25/2024
You can’t change people, and you shouldn't have to. You can’t shape someone into who you wish they were, nor can you rush their growth. You can’t ask them to be anything other than their true self, but you can change your expectations.
You can decide how much of yourself you give, where your energy flows, and what you choose to hold onto. You can draw boundaries that protect your peace and shift your focus to what truly matters. You can practice the art of acceptance, embracing the freedom that comes with letting go.
You can choose to surround yourself with those who uplift you, who recognize your worth and cherish your heart. You can invest in relationships that nourish your soul, rather than drain it. You can set the standard for how you wish to be treated and walk away from those who fall short.
You can also remind yourself that it's okay to be disappointed, but not to lose yourself in the process. It's okay to want more for someone, but not at the expense of your own well-being. You can learn to find peace in the space between what is and what could be.
In the end, when you reflect on the paths you’ve walked and the ones you’ve left behind you’ll see that the most beautiful transformations occur not by changing others, but by changing your own heart.
✍🏻 Worth Sharing
🎨 Amanda Oleander
