07/09/2026
Agree
Everyone says they want fewer "iPad kids."
But then a toddler cries in a restaurant, has a meltdown in Target, or can't sit still on a long flight, and suddenly the judgment starts.
We can't have it both ways.
Children learn how to behave in public by spending time in public. They learn patience by waiting. They learn restaurant manners by eating at restaurants. They learn how to shop by going to the grocery store. Those lessons don't happen overnight, and they aren't always quiet or convenient.
If we want kids to rely less on screens, we have to give them opportunities to practice being in the real world. That means showing patience, offering grace, and remembering that every calm, capable adult was once a child learning these same skills.
Parents who are doing their best don't need eye rolls or criticism. They need understanding, encouragement, and a little compassion. π―