Love Harms None

01/10/2026

Hate Harms as we witness. When 9/11 happened I cried. Not because of the loss of life, though I am not unempathetic, but because the country as I knew it had changed. The past few days proves just how much the country has changed, and I am still crying. The Dahli Lama speaks about to change the world you must stop the suffering. If you want to do good, then do good. Don't worry about the outcome, do the good you chose to do. I choose Love. I choose uniting with others who choose Love. United we build strength and fellowship bound by loving each other. Love Harms None.

01/04/2026

I hope everyone had a good start for your new year. It isn't too late to live with love in your hearts. As holder's of office revol in hate, love is resistance to the things you disagree with. I always identified with the Rebel Alliance in Star Wars. Hearing the vernacular of "Leftist Scum" makes me proud. We believe in Love and Justice than power and greed. I hope you choose to love. It may be an old fashioned idea, but love ultimately conquers hate because we are stronger United than separate. Love Harms None.

12/29/2025

My favorite holiday song is The Little Drummer Boy. I grew up blue collar welfare. My parents never had much, but we had a roof over our head, clothes on our backs and some food in our bellies. While growing up, I liked the idea that the drummer was poor like my family and didn't need a fancy gift to give, he gave of himself. Giving of himself was as good or better than gold. And the idea that it made baby Jesus smile makes me happy. I recognize now that the drummer was giving out of love. Music holds the magic of love and he shared his magic in love without fear or exchange. Love Harms None.

12/28/2025

My favorite holiday movie is A Christmas Carol. I love the theme that someone so morally corrupt can become a better person through remembering what Love is and acting in Love rather than fear. Scrooge forgot what Love was, blinded by greed. The Spirits opened his eyes and heart to Love and it had a huge ripple affect to the whole community. You can also affect that change in your community. One action, a word, listening to a stranger in distress, all of those actions can change a trajectory. Love Harms None.

12/25/2025

Happy Holidays. Remember: this is a very difficult time of year for a lot of us. Kindness goes a long way for us to survive. Personally, I don't do well with holidays. They were stressful, loud, and would wind up in a fight with tears. Don't allow your overstimulated emotions get the better of you. Disengage, breath deeply, count to 10 (or 50), and move on. It is better to cut a visit short in peace and love than to create or continue a cycle of trauma. Love Harms None.

11/14/2025

It is hard to write about love when surrounded by hate. Love is my preferred language. I sacrifice out of love. Love has no color barrier. Love is cooking a meal, washing clothes, running an errand. Love is getting the help you need. Love Harms none.

10/26/2025

Love is scary. Love means you must unlearn hate. Love is stepping into acceptance of others. Love is about identifying falsehoods you accepted as truths and changing your narrative. Love is compromise and cooperation for the mutual good. Love Harms None.

10/07/2025

Remember, you get more flies with honey than you do vinegar. This means you are better off using kindness first than threats. Using Love first usually gets you where you want to go or knowledge of why you can't do what you want to do. That's why neighbors used to introduce themselves. They would have difficult discussions but be able to walk away friends because they used love. There may have even been compromise of a situation. Love is always where you should start, but you may not always finish there. But when someone turns to violence, please remember that Love Harms None.

09/30/2025

Love is the ultimate protest of hate. Love Harms none.

09/20/2025

Violence begets violence. Violence has a ripple effect that Harms exponentially. Violence robs us of potential. Violence robs us of good. That's why I choose Love. I like the person I am better when acting in Love. Love also has a ripple effect, but it may be more difficult to see. Love builds, love heals, love Harms none.

09/16/2025

Lately it has been hard to think about love with so much hate in the world. Love has even become suspect because it is so rare. People hide behind the notion of love but hate themselves or the people around them. That's why I created this page: to remind everyone that real love Harms None. You have to love yourself in order to love others. When in doubt on what to do, always focus on you. You have to learn your love language before you can teach that language to others. Love yourself and others will be drawn to you. And use Love Harms None as a measuring stick when in doubt.

09/13/2025