05/03/2026
So there’s a heart warming footnote to my framed covers!
Once I’d got them all framed up and on my wall, I was due to visit Mum and thought she might like to see them.
Oh My Word!
I wasn’t expecting the reaction, thought in hindsight I probably should’ve been prepared.
Everyone says dementia is cruel and it’s true. But every now and then its grip slips and lets the sufferer come up for air - and this was one of those moments. The second she realised who these people were; that I had made the costumes; and that these were covers of the official she grasped the significance and then emotion flooded out. She was SO proud of me 😢😢😢😢😢
Not only that, she wanted to have it for her wall! So we went upstairs - just to see where it maybe possibly could hang - but once on the wall it had to stay there! I couldn’t take it down and waltz off back home with it.
She’d stolen it off me!!!!
The only solution was to find a second set of the magazines on eBay and have another frame custom made so I can have one too.
In the meantime dementia reasserted its control again and she couldn’t remember the names of the actors, referring to Tom as the ‘elderly gentleman’ every time it came up in conversation (which was often).
Now the replacement has arrived, I decided to annotate it with the actors names; the Doctors they played; and years they were in the roles, before taking it up to Mum to switch it so I can have my one back and finally up on my wall again as planned.
So what do you think mum said when she saw her new one? Honestly, a comedy series writer’s room couldn’t have written it - ‘Yes, I’ve got one of these’. 🤣🤣🤣