MOXIE with Deb Beroset

05/19/2026

Something I've been noticing this week, as the women coming to Elle start showing up.

One has been quietly making things for everyone else in her life — small, beautiful, hand-built things — and is finally turning to look at her own life and ask, what about me?

One has lived through something that taught her more about love and aliveness than most of us ever get the chance to learn — and is ready to do something with what she now knows.

One has been the one who handles everything — at home, at work, for her mother — and is finally saying, I am no longer available for this version of my life.

One is at the top of her field and is realizing that her brilliance is the thing she's been smallest about.

They're not in the same place. They're not even after the same thing. But there is one quiet line running through every one of them:

Something is calling, and I don't quite have the words for it yet.

That's enough.

That's the whole invitation.

Five Wednesdays starting tomorrow. A small group of unusually awake women. And me as their guide on a tour of possibilities they haven't yet let themselves imagine out loud.

If something has been pulling at you too — link in the comments.
xo

05/18/2026

What are you craving more of?

Not in the vague, “I want more joy” way.

I mean specifically.

More lusciousness?

More adventure?

More art, sweat, candlelight, dangerous honesty, ridiculous earrings, real conversation, better questions, stranger weekends, deeper rest, more color, more appetite, more of the version of you who walks into a room and thinks, “Oh. There I am.”

Your cravings are not random.

They are intelligence.

They are little flares from the life in you that has not given up.

And too many women have spent decades muting those signals so they could be reasonable, responsible, pleasant, low-maintenance, and emotionally available to everyone within a thirty-mile radius.

Darling.

Enough.

Elle is not about becoming a better woman.

It’s about becoming a more vivid one.

It’s a five-week creative interruption for the woman who has been reasonable long enough.

We begin Wednesday.

If something in you just said, “I want that,” trust the signal.

Comment ELLE or message me and I’ll send you the link.

05/17/2026

Some women do not need more self-care.

They need a plot twist.

And I don’t mean chaos. I don’t mean blowing up your life. I don’t mean running away to Lisbon with unsuitable men and impractical shoes.

Though let’s not be hasty.

I mean the kind of plot twist where a woman suddenly realizes:

Wait.

This is my actual life.

Not the dress rehearsal.

And I have been waiting to fully inhabit it until I’m more ready, more healed, more secure, more caught up, more convenient, more explainable.

Darling.

No.

Elle is not about becoming a better woman.

It’s about becoming a more vivid one.

We begin Wednesday.

Comment ELLE or message me and I’ll send you the link.

05/03/2026

Something new is open, and I want you to know about it.

I've just launched Elle, a five-week live immersion for the woman who has done the work, built the life, and knows, in the quiet, that she's still holding something back.

Here's what I know after thirty-five years of working with women at thresholds: people don't regret what they didn't accomplish. They regret who they didn't let themselves be. And the body knows this before the mind catches up. Desire is directional intelligence. Overriding it has a cost that compounds.

Elle is five weeks of stopping the override. On purpose. With a room of women who are ready.

We work with two forces most programs treat as decoration: Eros, the pull toward aliveness itself, and Moxie, the nerve to move toward it. Five movements. Five weeks. One real-world action taken before we close.

Begins May 20. Five Wednesday evenings. Twenty women. $555.

If something in you just leaned forward, that's the signal worth following.

www.itstimeformoxie.com/elle

— Deb

04/29/2026

Two weeks ago.
Eight minutes I recorded for myself on the threshold of a long drive.
(I've been wanting to share some of what has been opening for me. Starting here.)

https://vimeo.com/1181310745

I had the impulse to not only read this poem, but to read it aloud, and to record the moment, as I have been recording many moments during my current glorious, umtameable waterfall of openings and awakenings. Immediately after reading the poem, I got in my car and began the drive from my home outsid...

02/03/2026

My word last year was UPGRADE.

And oh, did that word work me.

I upgraded my thoughts. My expectations for myself. The company I keep. The roles I said yes to. The way I let myself be seen.

By December, my life looked different — not because I white-knuckled a resolution list, but because one word kept whispering: Is this the upgrade?

That's what a word does when it's the right one. It doesn't shout. It orients. It becomes a quiet filter for every choice you make.

Tomorrow I'm hosting Create Your Magical Year — six years running, this is the workshop women come back to. Two hours where you'll discover the word that wants to guide your 2026 — and then paint it across every area of your life.

Your time, your work, your relationships, your environment. You won't just leave with a word. You'll leave with a vision for how that word reshapes what's actually in front of you.

We'll reflect. We'll witness each other. You'll walk out with a word that lands in your body, a workbook full of your own insights, and real ideas for how to live it — starting this week.

📅 Tomorrow, Feb 4 · 1:00–3:00pm ET
💻 Live on Zoom · $47 (free for Club Moxie members)
Your word is already in you. Let's find it — and put it to work.

🔗 www.itstimeformoxie.com/workshops-cymy-2026

08/11/2025

You’re not lost.
You’re being called somewhere you haven’t been yet.

That’s the truth about midlife no one tells you — it’s not a crisis.
It’s a creative awakening.

I just shared an article I wrote for Natural Awakenings Tucson about that quiet restlessness so many of us feel in midlife — and how it’s actually a threshold to something wilder, freer, and more fully alive.

💡 If you’ve been wondering “Is this it?”
💡 If you feel like the old spark is harder to find…
💡 If you’re craving beauty, boldness, and your own becoming…

…this is for you.

✨ Read the article here: [https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/youre-lost-growing-wild-deb-beroset--bwere]

And if your soul is whispering yes, my Dare to Grow Wild program starts tomorrow. Three weeks. Creative reinvention. No five-year plan required.

Join us before doors close: [https://www.itstimeformoxie.com/dare-to-grow-wild]

08/03/2025

✨ You don’t need more to do.
You need a new way to be.

We’ve been told to strive, push, optimize.
To wait until we’re better, more ready, more…something.

But power lives in presence.
And presence lives in energy.

When a woman shifts her energy, possibility opens.
New ideas spark.
Old patterns loosen.
Momentum begins.

Dare to Grow Wild is a 3-week creative immersion for women who are done waiting and ready to remember.
Not in some heavy, soul-baring way.
But in a delightfully alive, let’s-play-our-way-forward kind of way.

It starts with choosing your VIBE—Hot Dame, Glitter Witch, or Wild Muse.
It unfolds with inspired prompts, creative practices, soulful reflection, and real-life moves.
It feels like spaciousness with a dose of audacity.

✨ When you tap your imaginal intelligence, reinvention becomes inevitable.
✨ When you treat your self-concept as an art form, transformation gets fun.
✨ When you move from your own genius, you become unmistakable.

This is Moxie in action.

Say yes if something in you is stirring.
Let’s grow wild.

[Tap the 🔥 in the comments if this speaks to you. Link in top comment.]

04/15/2025

Let’s be honest:
These are wild times to be a human with a heart.
The pace, the pressure, the polarity… it’s a lot.
And underneath it all, a quiet invitation:

Who are you now? And who are you becoming?

This is reinvention time.
Not because it’s convenient.
Because it’s necessary.

If you’re feeling the stirrings of something new—but unsure where to begin—here are a few guideposts I’ve found essential (for myself and the women I walk with):

🌀 Get honest about what no longer fits.
Roles. Beliefs. Identities. Outgrown dreams.
Letting go is tender and courageous—and often the gateway to becoming.

🌱 Ask your soul what it wants to grow.
Not what’s expected. Not what’s strategic.
What’s quietly calling you into expansion, into wonder, into a more luminous version of life?

🔥 Pay attention to where you come alive.
Not just what you’re good at. What lights you up.
That’s data. That’s direction.

🌸 Beautify your life—on purpose.
Whether it’s your desk, your calendar, or your mornings…
Create beauty where you can. Beauty heals. Beauty helps you remember who you are.

🌊 Build a brave ecosystem.
Your reinvention doesn’t thrive in isolation.
Surround yourself with people who remind you of your magic—and hold you accountable to it.

✨ Go at the pace of truth.
Sometimes that means leaping.
Sometimes it means pausing.
Both are valid. Neither is failure.

You don’t need to have it all figured out.
But you do need to listen to the deeper intelligence within you.
And trust that you’re not late.
You’re right on time.

If this speaks to you, I’d love to know what’s stirring in you these days.
Because in a world obsessed with speed and certainty, choosing presence and reinvention is radical. And beautiful. And deeply needed.

01/02/2025

Society loves to tell us what we should be:

➡️ Be healthy, but don’t take up too much space.

➡️ Work hard, but don’t brag about it.

➡️ Be a leader, but don’t be too bossy.

How about this year, you…

✨ Take up all the space you need! Your body, your success, your joy, own it.

✨ Show your achievements,  zero apologies. Celebrate everything that’s YOU.

✨ Lead by being fully yourself, even when it shakes things up.

Stop holding back. Stop dimming your light. When you refuse to play small, you free up all the energy you’ve been using to keep yourself hidden.

🪄 And trust me, that’s when the magic happens.

Ready to do this together? Start 2025 the right way with Moxiepalooza. Grab your seat for this fabulous virtual event today! Link in bio ⬆️

🗓️ January 3-5, 2025

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