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16/08/2026

AITA for not allowing my sister to meet my son until she apologizes to me?

I am 26, my sister is 25. I am currently 9 months pregnant with my first baby. The pregnancy was unexpected, and I consider myself a pretty private person, so I made it clear when I first announced to my siblings and parents that I do not want my personal information shared online without my permission. My sister promptly ignored that and posted my ultrasound picture (with my full name and date of birth) on her Snapchat. I told her she needs to take it down and after arguing with me she finally did. That was strike one. Strike two was screenshooting my own snaps regarding my pregnancy and sharing them with others. I had enough and blocked her.

After I blocked her (on Snapchat) I hadn’t heard from her since. Also made 0 effort to reach out to her because I am annoyed. My sister has been secretly living with her boyfriend for 3 years and I never said a word, but I ask her to respect my privacy surrounding my pregnancy and she can’t handle it.

Months of no contact later, my family starts asking me why am I being so mean to my sister. Apparently my sister has gone on a campaign telling anyone who will listen that I blocked her for no reason, and she reaches out to me all the time and is met with no reply. She says she asks how my baby and I are doing and that makes me mad so I don’t reply.

I decided to wait until I saw her in person to confront her...

16/08/2026

AITAH for being offended when my bf was disgusted with me over an… accident during a bj?

Update- I’m very stunned at the amount of people who have responded to my stupid post that I genuinely just posted for confirmation that I wasn’t being an a__hole. I genuinely did not know that any of this was considered s__ual a__ault and I’m very sorry if I caused on harm or heartache for anyone who read this unknowingly. Thank you so much to everyone who has helped me understand so many confusing things. I didn’t know any of this, but I know now. Our issues are far deeper than this too and I don’t think I would’ve realized how bad this is/was, at least not for much longer time if not for this post. For those who asked- I’m 20 and he’s 28. I don’t live with him. I’m not stupid or making this up I’m just confused. I talked to my friend and she helped me understand a lot too. But I am okay, and not going to continue this relationship with him. I showed her this post and my bruises that generally don’t really go away and she is very upset, I’d say just as much as anyone here is. Anyway, thank you for much for concern from a bunch of random strangers. I’m okay now, I’ll be fine eventually.

TW: (editing to include SA I’m so sorry for not doing that at first, I just genuinely did not know) s__ual content and bodily fluids?

So this happened two nights ago and I’ve been wanting to die of embarrassment ever since then.

So basically bf woke me in the middle of the...

16/08/2026

WIBTA when I tell my boss that my new colleague wants to get pregnant as soon as she has a contract?

Dear Reddit,

please hear me out on this one. I (F29) am working in a dentist's office. We are 5 dental assistants and 1 doctor.

The new assistant - let's call her Regina - is 41 years old and joined in November. As anyone else starting fresh, she has a temp contract for a duration of 6 months. In the beginning, she was kind of clinging to me and trusting me with some of her personal affairs without me asking to do so. In addition, she kept invading my private space (touching/hitting my ass) when we were changing several times, even though I told her to stop it when it first occurred. There have been witnesses to these events, but that's not the main issue of this thread.

What's bothering my colleagues and me (and probably the boss as well but I'm not sure) is the fact, that even though she claims to have 5 years of experience in this job, she keeps messing up simple tasks on a regular basis and justifies everything with: "nobody told me" or "oh I did not know that" - but its the exactly same situations and tasks over and over.

Here's where I think I may be the a__hole: when she was trusting me with her personal stuff, she told me that her plan is to try and get pregnant as soon as she has her permanent contract in her hands. Would I be the a__hole if I told my boss, or let it slip nearby my boss so its overheard?

I really love my job...

16/08/2026

AITA for refusing to move in with my pregnant sister who expects me to be the live-in help?

TLDR; My (23f) pregnant sister (30f) wants me to move in with her. Vaguely told me I'd be "helping around", which I took to mean running the errands or keeping the house in order, especially once she is futher along in the pregnancy. Realising now that she actually expects me to help deal with her creepy/manipulative in-laws, cook meals for her on short notice, run impromptu errands and do the cleaning. She's only in her first trimester right now.

So earlier today, she asked me to clean the bathroom extra well (I had done so 2 days prior, but thought ok. Cleaning it again won't hurt). Did it, then went back to my room. She comes in and asks me if I can get dressed to go buy her some chips from the store, since she hadn't had lunch and was hungry.

I told her chips were probably the best thing to eat on an empty stomach, but that there was some fresh bread/butter/cheese downstairs. She quietly leaves my room and I think nothing of it. A few minutes later, I head downstairs to make myself a drink and see her making herself a cheese sandwich. I said "you'll feel much better having that instead of junk food". She turns to me with a sour expression on her face and says "would you have gone to the store for me if I said I wanted an apple?" ...

I paused for a moment, thinking.. what a strange question. I asked "for one, singular apple?". She said yes, then I said no. Of course if the...

15/08/2026

AITA for refusing to babysit my toddler sister unless I’m paid?

Recently my mother (40F) has been asking me (16F) to babysit my sister (4F). I've been babysitting her whenever needed since she was born, no problem. But toddlers are alot harder to look after, imo. Sometimes my mom leaves her with me for the entire first half of the day to run errands. Lately it's been happening more freqently, and I'm starting to feel tired. Not to mention I have my own schoolwork to do. Today felt like the last straw so I looked up the average salary of a babysitter and put a note on my bedroom door: "Babysitter – $20/hr." When my mom saw it she started going on and on how she was just running errands, grocery shopping, etc. and said I was being a brat. I told her that I love playing with my sister, but watching over a fussy toddler is a chore, and a job people get paid for. I also reminded her about all my savings (around 800$) that she took from me and now owes me. She then threatened she wouldn’t do me favours anymore – like getting me a doctor's note when I feel o**erwhelmed with school (And no, I don't abuse this. At worst I ask about twice a year when everything becomes too much.) I pointed out that the price was reasonable for a babysitter, and she argued she doesn't charge me or my siblings (I have a brother too, 14M) when she cooks and cleans after us (she's sahm, btw). I calmly tried to explain to her that since she gave birth to my sister, she...

15/08/2026

AITA for telling my husband that I like the way he looks now

So I (30f) have always been into staying fit and working out, it’s just my hobby. And my husband (31m) was super into that when we got married and when we dated. He was super built which I loved but ever since kids and desk job he has put on a big beer belly.( used to weigh 180 now 250) but here’s the thing, I don’t hate it, I love it. It’s comfy and warm and i like having a lil more to grab on to. Hes still handsome still has really big arms he just has a belly and b__t, which I’m into. But basically last night he said he felt bad that he’s heavy and I’m skinny(120 average) basically long story short I told him I’m “into bigger bellies”. Now I realize that sounds mean but I didn’t mean it like that. I was tired. But he got mad and is still hurt so how should I apologize. And AITA

Update: I just told him that I didn’t mean it like that and that whether he wants to keep his dad bod or lose it that I always will find him extremely attractive(true) and I’m sorry. He said he feels better abt how it and that he just felt a little hurt. But he also said he feels a lil more confident now that I expressed my emotions. He’s gonna lose a few pounds but jokingly said he want obliterate it lol. Ty and I’ll give more updates if anything happens.

15/08/2026

AIM for being sad and hurt by my husband “being honest?”

Married for a long time. I love him with all my heart. There has been some ups and downs with my husbands health, but I have really tried as best as I can to support the family, help him get treatment, be patient when he can't work, be patient when he struggles with our kids.

I'm a little tired, I work/cook/clean. Most of the house work and parenting is on me. I'm truly ok with that, he doesn't feel the greatest and I hope we are coming up with some good options for treatment and counseling for him.

AIW for being hurt and having my heart break just a little every time he admits he wants to sleep around? He says he essentially hasn't be proposed to or put in that situation so I don't need to worry because no one would ever ask him. But that to me says he would consider being unfaithful if he was hit on or offered casual s__.

He says it's not ok to be untruthful, and telling me this information is just 'to be honest not to hurt your feelings.' But it does hurt my feelings. It's almost like he wants me to be grateful for him sharing this truth. It makes me so so sad.

I have even tried to spice up the s__ life and let my inhibitions down. I think he enjoys it, but it's hard to foster connection and trust when he keeps saying he would like to sleep with other people.

15/08/2026

AITA for not wanting to attend my sisters baby shower?

I (16F) don’t want to attend my (25F) sister “Angela’s” baby shower. When finding out she was pregnant I didn't have an opinion since I believced she would be moving out and my room would become my own.
She did not move out and has been planning her baby shower to be in the middle of december since she is due in january of next year. I was in shock because we barely have enough room in our home with 5 of us including myself.
So how could we shelter another kid? I voiced my opinion to my mom because Angela and I have never gotten along. My mom said we would just keep her kid in my room which I found completely unfair as I would have to share a room with her and her kid too now. My room is fairly small and our two beds take up all the room.
I was just confused on where we had the space for this kid and the money. Angela is also unemployed and lives off my parents. She sometimes helps around the house but uses the excuse she is pregnant to not do work.

Because of this I have been upset and I my other sister Ruby (28F) was upset at first but now is helping plan this baby shower. I have fully expressed I do not wish to attend and have a get together that day anyways with some friends. I’ve received backlash from my mom and Angela that it’s not the kids fault and I should be there for Angela.
My dad doesn’t support...

14/08/2026

AITAH for refusing to pay my boyfriend rent?

I (f24) moved in with my boyfriend (m27) 10 months ago. He bought his house 2 years ago and paid the down payment himself but his parents have paid his mortgage since. We split all house expenses and utilities 50/50 but recently we’ve been spending a lot more money on shopping and trips so our expenses have been higher than usual. He said he was low on money so maybe I could start paying rent to him. I said that didn’t seem fair to pay him rent since he doesn’t pay his mortgage but he said the arrangement is between him and his parents and not between me and his parents. AITA for not wanting to pay rent? Update: we had a long conversation about our financial arrangement and agreed on more clearly defined contributions to our joint expenses. We are planning a budget and to cut back on our spending. We agreed that what I would be spending on rent should instead go into saving for a down payment on a house together and he would use equity from selling his house so we both contribute the same to a down payment on a house together.

14/08/2026

AITA for rude and dismissive about all of my wife’s baby name ideas?

My wife and I are expecting our first child in the coming months and we have chosen not to find out the s__ until the baby is born. Things are starting to feel very real now so we’ve started to properly discuss names, but we’ve realised we both have vastly different tastes in name style and we are having a hard time finding the right one. My wife likes names that are out there and unique but I find these names tacky and silly and would prefer a better known, more traditional name. Last night she showed me a short list she had put together and thought I might like. The names on the list were: Girl: Fern, Fennix, Rhodes, Faun, Brixtyn, and Kinley Boy: Spark, Diesel, Quincy, Phoenix, Buck, and Fox These names are tamer than what she’s suggested before, but I told her they didn’t feel right. I suggested ideas like Rose instead of Rhodes, Felix instead of Phoenix, and Buchanan instead of Buck. I finally snapped when she suggested Zoomer. I asked if she was serious and said it was a stupid name. She asked what my problem was and why I was so dismissive of all her ideas and shooting down all the names she likes. I told her we were naming a child and not a dog, and that names can have a huge impact on the child. I said I don’t want my child to be bullied or taken less seriously because they have a ridiculous name. She told my I was rude and that I was the bully for making her...

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